tension. Try to avoid stressful situa- tions and control your reactions to them. Anticipate your child's fears - acknowledge them and don't be upset if she is unhappy in the begin- ning. Copley News Service What you want. - That you need.L- ---- Where to go. The National Institute on Media and the Family recommends the fol- lowing guidelines for getting control of your children's use of television: • Avoid using the television as a baby sitter. • Know what your kids are watch- ing. • Watch with your kids when you can. • Set guidelines around when and what your children watch. • Turn the television off during meals. • Talk to your child about what she's watching. • Put the family on a TV diet and schedule some fun alternative activi- ties. • Don't make the TV the focal point of the room. Copley News Service Don't Rush The Wardrobe Youth apparel is a $20 billion indus- try that hits its peak in the fall, when spending hits an average of $400 per child, according to the National Retail Federation. But when it comes to back-to- school planning, time really is money. Faced with time pressure, many parents don't make wise choic- es based on what kids need, rather than what strikes their fancy. Some tips: Evaluate what your child already has. Budget for basics first. Work with a basic color to pull together a new back-to-school wardrobe. But don't forget a few unusual items that will add versatili- ty to your child's basic wardrobe. Buy easy-care, durable clothes, which are best for younger children. For adolescents, spread purchases over time. They tend to have growth spurts. Copley News Service To BACK Setting Rules For Television SCHOOL ! ! ! LET THE SHOPPING BEGIN... Fashion Betsy's Bridal Couture The Cover Up Greg Shoes Guys N' Gals Karma Koochie Koo Accents in Needlepoint Rochelle Imber's Knit Knit Knit Rosalie • Sally's Design Boutique Sherri's-west bloomfield The Studio Under It All Service Food/Drugs Fine Jewelry Alterations & More Gemini Travel Lois Gross Dry Cleaners Star Trax Event Productions Efros Drugs Shopping Center Ma rkets Tapper's Diamonds & Fine Jewelry Home/Gifts/Galleries Restaurants Cheese Cake Cafe Ernest Larco Fine Italian Cuisine Panera Bread Shangri-La Chinese WEST BLOOMFIELD • MICHIGAN Restaurant Furrier Orchard Lake Road • North of Maple Beau Mop Shop Salon Papillon Salon Pearl of Paris (248) 851-7727 Bricker-Tunis Furs r T. v I X 17 I I '7 Barbara's Art Center Europa Art Gallery Heslop's China & Gifts ilona and gallery Kitchen Glamor Soleil Contemporary Furniture Wrap It Up vorn 4) Cog(4‘ :S. X Eilu v' Eilu is a community-wide adult Jewish learning partnership of the Detroit Conservative movement. We offer year-round learning opportunities for adults seeking to connect with Jewish history, holidays, culture and Torah. Call, fax, or e mail us for information about classes, study - groups, and special events, including our annual pre-High Holiday learning series, "Elul—A Time to Prepare", beginning August 23. Eilu v' Eilu welcomes all interested adult learners regardless of affiliation, background or previous Jewish study experience. e Eilu v' Eilu is sponsored by Adat Shalom Synagogue, Congregation Beth Abraham Hillel Moses, Congregation Beth Shalom, Congregation B'nai Moshe, Congregation Shaarey Zedek, Hillel Day School of Metropolitan Detroit, and Women's League for Conservative Judaism-Michigan Branch. Send Someone Special A Gift 52 Weeks a Year. Send a gift subscription to JN I (248) 354-6620 „ people eh ce, c,\P' 021 refe for0 00 , ces cf 4 r to Sell fOr acC ess Ito en d for Older kilts h . ElderLink elP, V49 • 4s4.3 /? : 55 9 : GP 01? Jewish Ode 3 Detroit Jewish News 8/21 1998 123