planned 100-room abode, don't you think? Matilda married lumber baron Alfred Wilson and the two lived amidst 24 fireplaces and no shortage of valuable paintings. The mansion, on the grounds of Oakland University, is open for tours on Sunday year-round and from Monday-Saturday during August. Shop At A Non Mall Mall - Surround yourself with shopping luxu- ries and beeline to the Somerset Collection in Troy. Don't call it a mall or you'll give yourself away as an out- of-towner. No tired shops and run-of- the-mill merchandise, this 180-store sparkling palace gleams with stately marble designs, contemporary water fountains, glass ele- vators and upscale shops, all connected by a glass- enclosed moving skywalk. Want to pamper your- self? Head to Spa Thira, Spa Nordstrom or the Estee Lauder Spa at Hudson's department store. Want food? Try the clubby Capital Grille or the fun-loving J. Alexander's. A sampling of shops includes Gucci, Armani Exchange, Saks, Neiman Marcus and Nordstrom. For The Kid In You - There's not an inch of space in Birmingham's Adventures in Toys that isn't crammed with some kind of toy. Surprises from this fantastic emporium range from magic wands, tiaras and cowboy hats to educational place mats and necklace beads. The Village part of Henry Ford Museum & Greenfield Village in Dearborn gets high marks from curi- ous children. Glass, pottery and print- ing demonstrations amaze while train, carriage and boat rides delight the wee ones. Take the five-minute trip from downtown Detroit to Windsor, Ontario, a la Indiana Jones-style via an underwater tunnel. Then pack a picnic and find a park bench at Dieppe Park or Coventry Gardens and the Peace Fountain and watch a steady stream of - Detroit River boat and freighter traffic against the Detroit city skyline. Light A Stogie Booming Birmingham got trendier last year with the opening of the Big Rock Chop and Brewery. Steaks and fresh ales preside in this outdoorsy eatery/bar. The jet set climbs to the top — to Got Rocks, a loft-area bar where cigar smokers, cognac connoisseurs, executives and stylish dames congregate. Anyone can enter, but Got Rocks emits a clubby, membership feel. You almost expect a door guard to request a secret pass- word. - Step Back In Time If the metro Detroit community is one big house, then the towns of Plymouth and Northville have to be the family rooms. The sister cities, located about 15 minutes from West Bloomfield and five miles from each other, welcome visitors with open arms. Sinclair Lewis would be right at home with their main streets. Each is lined with ice cream parlors, parks, art galleries and antique shops. When hunger strikes, reserve a table at Plymouth's Cafe Bon Homme on Penniman. The intimate, white-linen - the Deborah Roberts Design Room, which overflows with treasures for the table, body and home. Bursting like a sizzling pan of popping corn, Royal Oak's dining scene flourishes with places like Tom's Oyster Bar and Memphis Smoke, where Southern cooking rules (pass that melt-in-your- mouth corn bread!). Birmingham may be Michigan's most fashion-conscious enclave and is the shopping capital for one of the 10 wealthiest counties in the United States. Upscale, creative boutiques abound. Pot Around It looks like it belongs in an Agatha Christie novel, not Motown. Pewabic Pottery, a tiny Tudor-style cottage tucked back off Jefferson Avenue in downtown Detroit, has always has been part of the artistic world. Starting in 1903, it was the studio and home of Mary Chase Stratton, whose famous Pewabic tiles adorn numerous cities. Stratton's spirit lives on in the studios and contempo- rary ceramics retail galleries that showcase the works of artists from all over. Jewelry, candlesticks, bowls, mugs, vases and, of course, tiles fill the shelves. Indulge When you book a pedicure, you expect your feet to indulge in a relaxing soak, special massage creams and nail- shaping and filing. That's pretty much the routine ... unless you make an appointment at Spa Nordstrom in Troy. A few minutes into your visit and you'll enjoy a foot and calf massage before it's time for your happy footsies to take a dip into a heated paraffin pool to seal in mois- ture. All blessedly soothing. If you've got the time, you also should slip in a top-notch facial by Ellen Green, facialist extraordinaire. Nordstrom and Green were rated as one of the top 1997 facialists in the country by beauty editors at Allure magazine. Dexterous fingers, steam, aromatherapy and more reawaken every inch of tired skin. - - Catch A Mainstream Flick - Formerly a vaudeville house of the '30s and then a stage for re-tread musicals and comedies, the renovated Birmingham Theatre on bustling Old Woodward in Birmingham now fea- tures films and draws big crowds just about every night. With eight multi- sized theaters on two floors, a large candy selection and popcorn made fresh daily (emphasis on the word daily), this movie house scores big points. And it's in the heart of a thrilling downtown entertainment dis- trict. restaurant serves French/European- style lunches and dinners that are tres tres bien. In Northville, sup in story- book fashion at Emily's, a house on a hill on Center Street. Go Gallery Hopping At last count there were some 26 galleries between Royal Oak and Birmingham exhibiting gorgeous lamps, valuable paintings, home decor, jewelry, blankets and whimsical, hand-painted furniture. The two downtowns are about 10 minutes from each other off Woodward Avenue. An outstanding Royal Oak gallery is - 8/14 1998 Detroit Jewish News BEL