'ft Merger Approved Beth Achim members vote to join Adat Shalom. HARRY KIRSBAUM StalfWriter T he members of Congregation Beth Achim in Southfield voted over- whelmingly this week to become a part of Adat Shalom Synagogue in Farmington Hills. On June 14, in a secret ballot, the congregation voted 360 for, 50 _ z, 0 against, with 159 not voting. The congregation will join the 1,150, members of Adat Shalom by the High Holy days. Beth Achim's memorial plaques will also make the move, and some will be made over to match the plaques in Adat Shalom. Adat Shalom's board of trustees rati- fied the merger April 20, and the member- ship voted in favor of the merger last month, said Alan Yost, executive direc- tor of Adat Shalom. The United Jewish Foundation has agreed to buy the Beth Achim building and resell it to Akiva Hebrew Day School for an undis- closed amount of money. Bonnie Otis, a Beth Achim mem- ber from Waterford, said she and her family have been going to morning minyan at Adat Shalom to say kaddish for Evan, her 2 1/2-year-old son who died in his sleep a month ago. "They have been nothing but welcoming," she said. Younger families and more children are among the draws for her. Recently, Otis was saying kaddish at Adat Shalom when 1-year-old Kyle started crying. She took him out. Cantor Howard Glantz asked her why she had her baby outside. She said she didn't want her son to be a disruption; crying babies were frowned upon at Beth Achim. He said, 'Bring him back in, he's not making that much noise.' The way they're mak i ng us feel there is so H /-) welcome. I'm really looking forward to it." Most members agree with Otis. "I feel we do this not only for our- selves but for our children and our grandchildren," said Barbara Hubert of West Bloomfield. "It has nothing to do with loca- tion. It has to do with the viability of a congregation, which is not a building." Sandy Shapiro of Farmington Hills said, "I'm for the merger, because we're at the point where we have to do something. I've been very active at Beth Achim, it's been a very impor- tans part of my life. It's been very dif- ficult to leave, but I think that Adat Shalom has made us feel very wel- come. I think that it will be a true merger and a true blending of the two congregations." Others aren't so keen on the change. "I voted against the merger because I don't ride to shul on Shabbos, I walk," said Paul Sherizen of Southfield. "It's not going to be possible for me to go to Adat Shalom, and I don't know where to go from here. I asked the question (about what to do) and they fluffed me off. They're more worried about the plaques in the building than they are about the members that they left behind." Rabbi Herbert Yoskowitz will join the Adat Shalom clergy, sharing the bimah with Rabbi Efry Spectre and Rabbi Daniel Nevins. Rabbi Yoskowitz said he looks for- ward to performing his duties with the new, merged congregation. Rabbi Spectre added, "We hope to benefit from the distinguished heritages of both congregations," and called Adat Shalom "enriched." 0 Top: Bonnie Otis holding her 1-year-old son, Kyle. Above: Paul Sherizen has nowhere to go. Right: Beth Achim voters stand in line for merger ballots. 6/19 1998 9