LYNNE MEREDITH COHN Scene Editor Scene Young adults' ways of going out certainly change after college. 5/15 1998 82 n college, the bar scene had lit- tle to do with the actual locale but more to do with the peo- ple, music and drink specials of a particular watering hole. Remember those late-start 'nights that began at 11:30, with a six-pack of friends trudging, on foot, across town for the $1 pitcher special? And when you got there, it was all who- do-I-know, as you walked laps around the bar's perimeter and shmoozed with familiar faces. Boy, how things change. The post- college bar scene — if you can even call it that — has far more to do with locale than loquacious possibili- ties. You know how it goes: A buddy calls on Thursday (still the biggest bar night. for some), wants to know if you'll go out for a few hours, and you meet up at a place that has home-grown beer flavors, an offering of cigars and The Game on 12 TV sets. Or it's three girlfriends in black Gap pants, in search of live music, a different venue and some cute guys. And you're home in time for "ER." Nowadays we go to the bar once or twice a month — and always for the Jewish community-sponsored bar nights, including the ever-popular one sponsored by the Jewish Federa- tion's Young Adult Division. No - more than once a month (if that fre- quently) is it a "last-call" night where you stay out until 2 a.m. Bar-hop- ping in the 20s and 30s is merely a way to get out of the house for a few hours — we're too old to quaff half a •