so genuine that you would never believe this is something he just learned," said Irving Skolnik, who was Patinkin's Hebrew school principal in Chicago. As a child Patinkin stood out — as a talented singer and, as he recalls it, something of a troublemaker who spent a lot of time in the principal's office. He was a soloist with the children's choir at his Conservative congrega- tion. "The music, the holidays, junior congregation appealed to him because it involved davening," or praying, Skolnik recalled. "That was the thing that really turned him on. As a teen-ager he went to Jewish camp. But in college, Patinkin said, he had "no Jewish life" at the University of Kansas. "My Judaism came back to me in a rush when I met my wife," he said, referring to Kathryn Grody, an author and actress. "When I met her I just loved her, and that had never happened before. My feelings were so full. I started saying the Shema once a day. It was always in my head. And then the kids were born." Patinkin and Grody have two boys — Isaac is 15 and Gideon is 11. At that point, he said, "I often increased the prayers. Before I die, I will write down what I pray so my kids can have my prayer book." The Jewish life Patinkin and Grody have with their kids is home-based. They don't go to synagogue much anymore, he said, even on the High Holidays, though they pay dues to a neighborhood Conservative syna- gogue. "Every theater I'm in is a synagogue — it's the place where I feel in touch with God and humanity" Patinkin said. They sent their older son to a Jewish day school through second grade, but found that the formality of the rules he was being taught, includ- ing kashrut, didn't jive with how they live. They moved him to a private school with no religious affiliation. Instead of attending Hebrew school, both of their boys have had private Hebrew tutors — and the older one became a bar mitzvah as the younger will be in a couple of years. Patinkin often takes his older son, who loves nature, camping. One day, when they were backpacking in the mountains, they got lost. Frightened, Isaac began reciting the Shema. " "That was nice," Patinkin said. "I want to pass it on." — Debra Nussbaum Cohen MUSIC FOR MAX The family of industrialist and phil- anthropist Max Fisher — in honor of his 90th birthday and the 50th anniversary of Israel — commissioned a symphonic piece by Yale University composer and professor Ezra Laderman. The university hosted the world premiere of that piece, Yisrael, on May 2, when it was performed by the Yale Philharmonic under the baton of Lawrence Leighton Smith. It will be made available to public radio stations across the country. A symphony in three movements, Yisrael was planned to be melodic, accessible and highly personal with echoes of traditional Jewish folk and liturgical music. "The piece reaches an incredibly powerful level," said Laderman, who was commissioned by CBS-TV in 1973 to compose music celebrating Israel's 25th anniversary. That was pre- miered by the Jerusalem Symphony Orchestra and broadcast throughout the world. "I've been to Israel at least 20 times, and I love the country and what it stands for," said Laderman, whose music also has been performed by the Detroit Symphony Orchestra. "My whole background is oriented toward Israel. My father was a rabbi in Poland and spent the last 10 years of his life as director of Histadrut in the United States. My mother knew David Ben- Gurion." The Fisher family picked Max Fisher Yale for this honor because of Max Fisher's association with two Yale gradu- ates, according to Rabbi James Ponet, the Jewish chaplain at the universi- tY. Rabbi Herbert Ezra Laderman Friedman, a 1938 graduate, was executive director of the national United Jewish Appeal in 1967, when Fisher was national chairman. Peter Cummings, Fisher's son-in-law, graduated in 1968. Fisher also has contributed money for the Center for Jewish Life at Yale. "We are delighted that the Laderman concert stands as the cen- terpiece of Yale's salute to Israel at 50," Rabbi Ponet said. "Israel says to the world, 'It's never too late to begin again.'" Laderman was dean of the Yale School of Music from 1989 to 1995 and has served as president of both the American Music Center and the National Music Council. In addition, he has been chair of the Composer- Librettist Program of the National Endowment for the Arts and director of its music program. A recipient of three Guggenheim fel- lowships as well as the Prix de Rome, Laderman was elected to the American Academy of Arts and Letters in 1991. — Suzanne Chessler A STERN REPRIMAND Radio shock jock Howard Stern, who often claims to be "half- Jewish," has accused filmmaker Spike_Lee of "hatemongering." The filmmaker, according to a report in New York's Jewish Week, blamed the Jews for his loss of this year's Academy Award for Best Documentary Feature. Lee's Four Little Girls, about the 1960s bombing of an Alabama church that resulted in the death of four young black children, was beat- en out by The Long Way Home, pro- duced by the movie-making arm of the Simon Weisenthal Center under the tutelage of Rabbi Marvin Hier. ... when I saw the list of nomi- nations ... and then saw one of the films was a Holocaust film, I knew it was over. And then when I saw one of the producers was a rabbi, then I definitely knew it was double over," said Lee in a taped press con- ference played by Stern on his morn- ing radio show (airing on 97.1 in Detroit). "I guess all the people who voted for the Academy Awards are Jews," mocked Stern. "Is it possible the Holocaust movie was any good?" — Gail Zimmerman