0 0 0 daughters — Erika, 15, used to skate in the show while Adrienne, 10, remains in the show this year. "You learn to rely on (other par- ents)," Meltzer says. "Parents devel- op carpools, and buy tickets for the show. There's an ongoing relation- ship because you see these people once a year for this event." From the kids' perspective, "I think it's a lot of fun," says Amanda May. "You get to meet many new and different people with different qualities of talent. It's very different from skating by yourself." Amanda's sister, Tana, 12, a veter- an from last year, and brother Andrew, 10, are in this year's show. Skaters try out for the show in November. Selections are announced in late December. Costumes must be ready by March. The skaters rehearse for about two months before the show opens. Skaters who appear in more than one number may rehearse for several hours every day. "The Southfield show is a gor- geous, gorgeous show," says Bob Tarnow. "It's as close to professional as you will see, as far as the scenery and sets and lighting and costum- ing." It's a lot of glitz, very glam- orous," says Sharynn Meltzer. "It's not an exhibition of skating, which is what some of the other clubs do. But it's a real Ice Capades-like show." None of the skaters are paid — indeed, almost everyone who works on the show is a volunteer — but the kids receive other benefits, according to their parents. Skating in the show "has helped in terms of discipline, time manage- ment, having goals to work toward," says Meltzer. "I think (it gives) a lot of self-confidence and a lot of self- esteem." Adds Bob Tarnow, "They get to perform in front of an audience and they also get the responsibility of having to be there for practices." Meltzer also points out the thrill of meeting past guest skaters Roslyn Sumner, Liz Manley and Gary Bea- com. This year's guests include Scott Williams and Charlene Wong. As for the parents, "We love it. We're true stage parents," admits Tarnow. ❑ " • For Southfield ice show ticket information, call (248) 354- 9357. 01VIFORTABLE. ;41, •e\A . WITH A VERY CARING STAFF. Beautiful Nursing Home. Quiet Setting, Overlooking Two Beautiful Lakes. THE BEST KEPT SECRET IN OAKLAND COUNTY. Medicare & Medicaid Approved Bortz Health Care on Green Lake 6470 Alden Drive • Orchard Lake 248-363-4121 Please call to arrange for our complimentary limousine to drive you to our elegant mansion for your personal tour. Drip! Get Your Faucet Fixed! Check out the j Plumbers j in our j Marketplace j Home and j Service Guide. ; • Stand out above the crowd, have your financial future planned by a professional Call Phase Four today to schedule a one hour complimentary consultation with Joel Levi, CFP and Trish Wellman, CFP. PHASE FOUR (248) 559-6980 .CFP and Certified Financal Planner arc certification marks of the International Board of Standards and Practices for Certified Financial Planners. Inc. (IBCFP). , Securities offered through Vest. Securities Corporation, Member NASD & SIPC, 1931 Georgetown Road, Hudson, Ohio 44236. (330) 650-1660 4/24 1998 135