At The Movies Its a long way from Kansas for actor Paul Rudd, co-starring in "The Object of My Affection." SERENA DONADONI Special to The Jewish News T he Object of My Affection (Rated R), opening today, is a thorny love story imbued with compassion, a comedy set in a liberal melting pot that finds humor without throwing poisonous barbs. Nina Borowski (Jennifer Aniston) acquires a new roommate, George Hanson (Paul Rudd), who has just been unceremoniously dismissed by his longtime boyfriend. What was supposed to be a temporary situation grows into an intense friendship, one that unnerves Nina's boyfriend, Vince (John Pankow). Things become even more compli- cated when Nina becomes pregnant and decides to raise her child not with Vince, the father, but with her gay roommate George, with whom she has fallen in love. "This is a film about a chain of unrequited love," said director Nicholas Hytner in Los Angeles, "about falling in love with the wrong person, about the difference between sexual desire and romantic obsession, about how necessary or not sexual pas- sion is as a basis for a long and stable relationship." "I think they hoped they could make up their own rules and just be there and love one another," Jennifer Aniston said of Nina and George, "but you can't help but want to go that one step further." The Object of My Affection has an impressive list of well-known names • attached to it, including Nicholas Hytner, the British stage director of Serena Donadoni is a Detroit-based freelance writer. Miss Saigon and the recent revival of Carousel who moved into films with The Madness of King George and The Crucible. Playwright Wendy Wasserstein, who wrote the Pulitzer Prize-winning The Heidi Chronicles and The Sisters Rosensweig among others, adapted Stephen McCauley's novel as her first screenplay, a project she has worked on intermittently for the last decade. The cast includes not just "Friends" star Jennifer Aniston but other sitcom and stage regulars: John Pankow, Tim Daly, Alan Alda and Nigel Hawthorne. The biggest question mark is the actor playing George; his biography in the press notes is half the length of his co-stars'. "Ooo, that means I'm mysterious," said Paul Rudd with a laugh when he's told of the disparity. The 29-year-old actor was born in New York but grew up in Kansas City. He attended the University of Kansas, then the American Academy of Dra- matic Arts. Although most of his work has been onstage, Paul Rudd isn't a complete stranger to film: He played Alicia Silverstone's stepbrother in Clueless, the jilted Paris in William Shakespeare's Romeo + Juliet, and recently appeared in Tile Locusts. "The challenges in playing this character [George Hanson] were just acting challenges," explained Rudd, "not having to do with a character's , sexual identity but just creating a real human being who's going to respond honestly and realistically to situations. It was never a challenge not to play into gay stereotypes. "I was doing a play," he continued, and one of the guys who was working -at the theater had been in this situa- tion: A gay man had been asked to be the father of a child of his best friend. George (Paul Rudd) is the object of Nina's (Jennifer Aniston) affection in "The Object of My Affection."