Anna, Alex, Andy and Jason test Kate laC01/S fillet 101'J' every day. Memory loss is a natural part of the aging process don't overload your hard drive. r RUTHAN BRODSKY Special to The Jewish News fifteen-year-old Stacy enters the kitchen to get some- thing, forgets what she wanted, shrugs her shoul- ders and moves on. Forty-eight-year-old Jeffrey enters the kitchen, forgets why he came there, fears he's losing it and showing signs of Alzheimer's disease. The bad news is that memory does beginfto slip for some people as early as their 40s. The good news is that this is a normal part of growing older and doesn't mean being at risk for dementia. Katie Jacob keeps her life organized by using a planning calendar. "With four children, ages 7, 8, 10 and 1 1 , there's no way I could manage our household, let alone keep appoint- ments, without my calendar," said Jacob of Birmingham. "I use a small version and take it everywhere, even when we go out-of-town, because it has everyone's address and phone number. "I used to make lists of things to do, but as the kids became more active the number of lists increased, the lists got longer, and I'd lose them. "Now I take time each month to schedule appointments, lessons and school activities, making sure every- thing is current and then I don't worry about forgetting. [Her husband], Stephen, uses a Palm Pilot — one of the hand-held planners to keep his life in order." Our internal Palm Pilots are thoughts. In general, thoughts are divided into three categories in which the brain selects and stores informa- tion, each serving a distinct purpose. Our thoughts are first bandied about in short-term, temporary mem- ory — for a few seconds, up to a few minutes — and then they're forgotten. If some are important, they are filed and stored in recent long-term memo- ry, which preserves the recent past such as remembering what we wore yesterday. Thoughts which never get to long- term memory are usually forgotten. According to brain research, memories that stick with us after five years are likely to stay with us always. The problem is we may eventually forget how to retrieve those memories. just Remember These Tips Social worker Jerri Litt has seNreral practical tips for remembering: "Keep challenging yourself and continue to learn," says Litt, and make lists and keep a calendar or appointment book. Establish a routine and keep your keys and glasses in one place in the house because then you'll notice when they're missing. "Use post-it notes in strategic places or on papers so that you can recall what you're supposed to do. Pay attention and be selective about what's important for you to remember because no one can remember everything. And then try not to worry because being anxious about your memory will only lead to more forgetfulness. especially if you're tired or under str es s." 4/10 1998