Food . . c.. LJ 1-696 = 9 MILE 0 8 8 MILE These sale prices effective March 30 thru April 12, 1998 Pick Up The Pace Of Your Pesach Seder Photo by Religious News Service EMPIRE $129 KOSHER L.. TURKEY 10-15 : I 1, AVERAGE GEFILTE FISH $3 • s no w ied /1) * ram 49 tinio noz CAN AbfiCi t ANNABEL COHEN Special to The Jewish News HORSERADISH ROOT FRESH PARSLEY MOGEN DAVID WINE $199 4/$1 3' 10 LeGking for... INFORMATION The Federation Resource Line has thousands of resources to answer your questions. Federation Resource the Call the Federation Resource Line, (248) 559-4411; (248) 559-6146 TT (Text Tele- phone for people who are deaf or have hearing impairments) A program of the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit -.A. t t (248) 559-4411 := TT: 559-6146 Fax: 559-6140 A Jewish Information and Referral Service AINBOW OF TRAVEL Providing excellent service for the Gay and lesbian community 4/3 1998 126 For Business Travel - For Pleasure Travel Individuals or blocked group space Call Ginny at 248-855-6335 et's face it. The Passover seder can be very long, especially when your tummy's growl- ing. Done right, some seders are virtual tests of stamina and fortitude, clocking in at three to four hours (and four glasses of wine, to boot). While the Passover story is fascinat- ing and traditional Pesach foods are forever beloved, there's always room for innovation in both the seder service and its foods. Most people think you can't change the seder. Although the story of the Passover is always the same, and the order, the seder, is a constant, there are ways to "spice" up the seder by making it more user-friendly — and fun. The Passover seder is a family affair. That means there are usually children around. So it only makes sense to keep the children not just occupied but immersed in the seder. West Bloomfield's Gina Horwitz takes a unique approach to making her seder table whimsical. For the past few years, the Horwitzes have collected decorative frogs of all sorts to put on their seder table. While this, like an ancient custom of putting nuts on the table, keeps the kids amused during the seder, it also relates to the "frogs" plague mentioned in the Haggadah. "My seders have evolved as I have evolved," said Arlene Victor of Bloomfield Hills. "They've become more of an exchange of ideas and per- ceptions among everyone involved." Victor is following a trend of mak- ing the seder more understandable and meaningful for each participant. "Years ago we began by making the Haggadah gender-neutral," she said. "Where it said 'forefathers,' we substi- tuted 'ancestors.' It was strange at first, but now we're accustomed to it. Also, now my husband and I co-lead the seder instead of just him." '11)=K Lorraine Lerner of West Bloomfield is also always looking for easy ways of making each seder unique. "One year we assigned each guest a person men- tioned in the Haggadah," she said. "Then each guest came with a short biography of the person mentioned. It was very interesting and we all got a better feel of how these people fit into the story of not just Pesach, but the Bible itself." As these examples illustrate, perhaps the best way to keep your family and friends bright and attentive during the seder is to include them in the service. Here are 10 other quick ways of involving your guests: * Place terra-cotta plant dishes on your table with unlit candles of all shapes and forms. Have each guest light a candle when it's his or her turn to read. * Have each person or family bring their own kiddush cups for the seder. Let them tell how they received the cup or tell its history. * Have each seder guest tell of a memorable Pesach experience or how their family celebrated Pesach in years past. * Make a list of modern plagues. We all know about the 10 plagues. Have each guest add their own and discuss the plagues. (AIDS, world hunger, floods, global warming, war, etc.) SEDER on page 130