JINCelebrate MARKERS from page 34 Morels, has spent 15 years in catering and 40 in the restaurant business. She sees more people celebrating the decade years, particularly 50, and doing so more elaborately than in the past. In her experience, it's primarily the women who are planning the par- ties — either for themselves or making surprise parties for their husbands. "Women today are proud of what they've accomplished," said Rosen. "A lot are working and they feel comfort- able saying, 'I want to have a party.'" 286 West Maple • Birmingham (248) 540-1977 Mon.-Sat. 10-5:30 • Thurs. 10-9 the Intersection of ectith & flavor We invite you to come sample the flavors, feel the charm, and experience the hospitality of Middle East. Ofte* ‘e.a/trA Verie-ed 7,etet Elead • Rich Vegetarian Menu • Raw Juice Bar • Cocktails • Great Carry Outs La Shish (Farmington Hills) 12 Mile & Halstead (313) 553-0700 La Shish (West) West Dearborn (313) 562-7200 Open 7 clays Tata! s (by La Shish) La Shish (Van Dyke) West Dearborn Van Dyke S. of 14 Mile Rd. (313) 565-5500 (810) 977-2177 a week for Lunch & Dinner La Shish (East) East Dearborn Celebrating the good times in life. The birthday parties Rosen has assisted are moderate-sized events, generally 50-70 people for luncheon or dinner. Often, celebrants want flowers, appetizers or a sweet table to cap the event. Like Bershad, Rosanne Kukes also had a rough year before she turned 50. Both she and her husband had some medical scares that, after a lot of run- ning and worry, turned out fine. An older cousin died unexpectedly at 59. Thinking that there's always another birthday, Kukes had missed this cousin's last birthday party. On the other hand, her husband and children wanted to give her a party. She felt blessed to have both parents still living and fortunate to have many dear friends. It was important to Kukes that all of her friends be invited to share the good times. She chose to have her party in a restaurant where more peo- ple could be accommodated than in her home. In addition, she felt she would be more able to relax and enjoy the party if it was held outside her home. Kukes had a ladies' luncheon at Morels. She invited 70 women from all areas of her life — relatives, friends from golf and bridge, friends of the family she's known for years, women she grew close to through activities their kids shared. MARKERS on page 38 (313) 584-4477 C) <