Left: Taron Tachman and grandmother Florence (Flo-Flo) Tach- man. "One of the most wonderful grandmothers in the world. I can call 20 minutes before coming over and a five-course meal appears. She's more than a grandmother; she's a good friend," Grandparents give us gifts we cherish for a lifetime. courage and strength have always been an inspiration, but even more so since the death of Weil's father last year. "My grandmother misses [her son] tremendously, but she still carries on with such dignity," she says. Those young adults fortunate enough to have living grandparents know too well that there is little time to waste. Farmington Hills resident, Rick Goren, 26, lost his last living grandparent this year, but says he feels very lucky to have had four grandparents living nearby while he was growing up. As Goren got older, he learned to cherish the times with his grandparents. "My grandpa would always sit at the head of the table and lead the seder. It will be hard this Passover without him," says Goren. "It was great listening to the old stories. A lot of my Jewish identity came from my grandparents. They came over from Russia. It made me proud of my her- itage." It was Goren's grandfather, the late Sam Resnick, who taught him about caring for others. "My grandparents were really in love. My grandfather took care of my grand- mother [Sonya] before she died. Less than one year after her death, he died. I think he died of a broken heart." West Bloomfield resident, Jennifer Rosenwasser, 28, has enjoyed a very close relationship with grandparents Sylvia and Israel Abramovitz, of Oak Park. "I am very fortunate that they are alive,"-she says. "When we were young, we used to visit my grandpar- ents in New York. Before our visits, my grandfather would stand in the ticket line at Times Square for hours to get us tickets for the best shows. The line would circle around a few times, but he would wait," she says. "I love hearing my grandparents' stories of how they came to this country. You can never tire of that. It makes me feel pride that they are alive for me to hear their stories, and what it took for them to come here. They really appreciate living in this country," says Rosenwasser. "They have shown me that life isn't easy, and that there will be perils and hardships to face. But, if you want something bad enough, you will make it work." Rosenwasser says it was her grand- mother's strong work ethic that she'll remember most. "She worked hard all her life, so her children and grandchildren could live better. As a woman, she sets an example for all of us." ❑ Grandmother Marianne Reinstein with Sandy Rockind. 'My grandma is my miracle and my inspiration." Debbie Weinstein between grandmothers Fanny Greenbaum and Rose Plotnik. "I enjoy hearing stories from the good old days." 2/27 1998 89