In Detroit Stylin We may not have a Seventh Avenue, a Rodeo Drive or even a Magnificent Mile, but the Detroit area is not bereft of cutting-edge fashion. • Abercrombie & Fitch, the quin- tessential unisex "knock-around" • Edward Dorian for workplace attire. Suits and separates reflect the newest styles with profession- al panache. Don't leave before eyeing the acces- sories — Kate Spade bags and delicate silver jewelry 237 Pierce, Birmingham. Chowin' • Holiday Market — If you want to meet a cute someone at the grocery store, this is the place. Excellent wine selection, semi- respectable kosher aisle, beautiful breads, great produce. Main Street, Royal Oak. • Go to school Schools, synagogues and local groups offer classes for fun. Try Watercolor Painting (Farmington Adult Education, 248-489-3333), Hands-On Judaism (Temple Shir Shalom, 248-737-8700) or the Basics of Improvisation (Second City, 313-964-5821). flannel emporium. Yes, it's a mall store, but who can resist? Faded, gently worn and slightly wrin- kled never looked so good. • Lotus Import Co. blends • Westborn Market — A produce carnival, with fresh fruits and veg- etables, nice cuts of fish and non- kosher meats, as well as juices, dairy products. Good kosher sal- ads. Woodward between 11 and 12 Mile, Royal Oak. The best ways to meet people in metro Detroit? Listen to your mother. What she told you as a kid still applies today. ' • Excelsior offers the total shopping experience --- mesmerizing '40s music, an eclectic merchandise mix that includes funky fabrics from Cut Loose and body- skimming styles by French Connection, plus laid-back customer service that makes you feel as though you're trying on clothes in your own boudoir. 23900 Woodward, Pleasant Ridge. Grocery shopping is one of my favorite activities. It's a time to relax, stroll down the aisles and eye all the delectable items with which to create scrumptious meals. Creative Coupling • Dexter Davison Meats — Hand- made kreplach like your grand- mother's, plus a bevy of kosher cuts. Odd hours (make sure to check). Friendly service. In the Farmer Jack shopping plaza, 10 Mile, east of Coolidge, Oak Park. • Harvard Row — Kosher butcher with impeccable service, clean cases, great prices. Orchard Lake Road north of Maple, West Bloomfield. • Eastern Market — Detroit neighborhood with lively person- ality. The freshest produce around town, and cheap! A flat of raspberries (12 pints) costs around $5. Russell Street. ❑ — Lynne Meredith Cohn • Don't be shy Try a matchmaking service. Temple Israel's Beshert Connection lets you decide whom to meet, as you page through black books full of snapshots and personal info. • Pick up a book once in a while Hit a bookstore for some Dickens ... or a date. Looking for an intellectual? Try the philosophy section. Adventurer? Travel. Fellow Jews? Check out Judaica ... and Chinese cooking. The Agency for Jewish Education sponsors several discussion programs at Barnes and Noble on Orchard Lake Road. the granola-crunching, incense- burning '70s with the best of con- temporary '90s garb. 419 S. Washington, Royal Oak. • The Yachtsman, "patty" par- adise. No shop around carries a larger selection of Patagonia. it's the answer to your fleece fantasy, and the atmosphere is ski resort chic. 1105 S. Adams, Birmingham. ❑ — Linda Bachrack •-• • Don't get lost — stay in the neighbor- hood In downtown Royal Oak, try -Woody's and Fifth Avenue Billiards on Thursdays and Fridays for live music. On Tuesdays, check out the music at Memphis Smoke. In downtown Birmingham, singles are giv- ing up "must see TV" in exchange for a Thursday night at Dick O'Dow's (hang- out for a few Red Wings), 220 Merrill and Midtown Cafe. Oh, and the Library Pub in Novi is a hopping place on weekends. • A little exercise won't kill you Try the Oakland Athletic Club, Powerhouse/West Bloomfield, Franklin Racquet Club or the JCC gyms (West Bloomfield and Oak Park) if you want to schvitz with fellow Jews. It beats the bars and, if noth- ing else, you can take home a hot bod — yours. ❑ — Debbie Feitl