and lead prayers? As rabbis, they're clowns." Ne'eman, an Orthodox Jew general- ly respected for his moderating role in the talks, compounded the damage by lashing out at an American Reform ketubah (marriage contract) from the wedding of a couple who were not only of the same sex, but were of dif- erent religions. "These and other recent comments are both distorting the reality of Reform Judaism in America and are totally out of place with regard to Reform Judaism in Israel," protests Uri Regev, the Reform negotiator. LAST SUMMER, JEWS IN ISRAEL and the diaspora looked over the abyss and were appalled by what they saw. Without appreciating the wider reper- cussions, the three Orthodox religious parties in Prime Minister Binyamin Netanyahu's coalition had presented a bill which would have rooted in law the de facto Orthodox monopoly on conversions in Israel. It was denounced by the Conservative and Reform communities — a tiny minor- fty in Israel, but a majority among Jews in North America — as a decla- ration of war, a death blow to any hope of religious pluralism in the Jewish state. Israelis should not have been sur- prised by the explosion. This was not the first such confrontation between Israel and the diaspora. For most Israelis, the problem didn't impinge. eform Judaism was an alien implant that might be all right in godless America, but didn't belong in the Promised Land. Eventually, reluctantly, they got the message. "The issue of pluralism does- n't speak to this government," admits Bobby Brown, the prime minister's American-born adviser on diaspora lffairs, "the issue of Jewish unity does. The specter of Jews turning their backs on other Jews is one that haunts this government." So Ne'eman, an avuncular Orthodox Jewish lawyer with a devi- ous reputation for solving problems, was appointed to head a joint com- mission to seek a compromise that would end the Reform and onservative movements' legal chal- lenges, which seemed likely to suc- ceed, and to subsequently yank the proposed legislation, which also seemed likely to pass. Over the past six months, the corn- mission has met more than 50 times. It is due to report by Jan. 31. Asked what the chances for an agreement are, the Conservative Bandel speaks for most of the negotiators, choosing his words with talmudic care: "I'm not optimistic, but I'm hopeful." The commissioners are spurred by recognition that the Ne'eman Commission is a unique, and probably unrepeatable, opportunity. "There is a deep awareness among the various constituents of the Orthodox commu- nity that we are at a crossroads in his- tory," says the Orthodox yeshiva head Nachum Rabinovitch, "and that unless we reach some kind of accommoda- tion, there is a real threat of the split becoming a permanent schism." For their part, the progressive move- ments have lowered their sights. They are no longer demanding unqualified recognition in Israel. "We are willing to go a long way in accommodating the Orthodox in the interest of greater unity, cooperation and respect," says Regev, a sabra lawyer-rabbi who has led the Reform's courtroom battles for legitimacy. Behind the willingness to compro- mise there is also the knowledge that most of the 200,000 Russian immi- grants who have Jewish relatives, but are not Jewish, are not interested in an Orthodox conversion. They might want to belong to the Jewish people, but not on the restrictive terms Orthodoxy offers. Government offi- cials in particular hope that a Conservative or Reform option might draw them into the fold. But a new issue, which has surfaced Group Pushes Rabbis Into Dialogue DEBRA NUSSBAUM COHEN Special to The Jewish News group of prominent Orthodox, Conservative and Reform Jews ha.s issued a public appeal encouraging the work of a commit- tee in Israel charged with resolving the seemingly intractable conflict over religious pluralism. The group of 18 rabbis, acade- mics and lay leaders was brought together by Shvil HaZahav, an orga- nization founded by modern Orthodox Rabbi Shmuel Goldin, of Englewood, N.J. Goldin's work initially focused on promoting pro-peace process atti- tudes in the Orthodox community. — H e starte int , t erdenomina- he i . tional group last Jantiary, , when fric- tion between liberal and Orthodox Jews in the. United States began to explode amid the push for Israeli legislation to Codify. Orthodox con- trol over conversions in Israel. Participants in the dialogue groupi which has been meeting qui etly every several weeks, are affiliat- with the centrist Orthodox-run rvative 'versi A movement's Jewish Th.eological Seminary and the Reform move- ment's Hebrew Union College- Jewish Institute of Religion, related denominational organizations and individual congregations. They are urging that their model of interdenominational trialogue be replicated in other communities. "There are some other communi ties that have contacted us, but their attempts are still pending," said Goldin, whose group means "golden path" in Hebrew. "By going public and attempting to say that this is working for us, we hope to encour- age it in other places. According to participant Rabbi Eric Yoffie, president of the Reform movement's Union of American Hebrew Congregations, "American Jews must move beyond their differ- ences and engage their brothers and sisters in civil dialogue. Only then will we begin to develop a genuine understanding of each other." Another participant, Anne Lapidus Lerner, vice chancellor at JTS, said, "Our trialogue has demonstrated that American Jews cart,engage in civil discussion with y.,e different — fre- Mentally different -- oints of view. To achieve derstanding, there must ations all over the United as we established here.' nssbatun Cohen writes Telegraphic Agency Talking u Israel Prime Minister Binyamin Aretanyahu, center, met last fall in Washington, D.C, with Reform leader Rabbi Eric Yoffie, left, and Conservative leader Rabbi Isrnar Schorsch. 1/9 1998 57