sr* x In The rmsr ow Sgt. Charles Nathan Ross:_ respect for the military with a Jewish bent. Not your run-of-the-mill recruit, Sergeant Charles Nathan Ross leads a Jewish life in the military. n SUSAN TAWIL Special to the Jewish News e's got the best posture you've ever seen. That's one of the marks the Army left on Sergeant Charles Nathan Ross, 33, an Oak Park native who joined the Marines fresh out of high school in _ 1983. "I always liked playing Army when I was a kid," he quips. Following boot camp, Ross was assigned to Aviation Ordnance (a military term meaning weapons and explosives). After graduating in the top three of his class, Ross worked with jets, attack helicopters and 50- caliber machine guns. By the end of his four-year tour of duty, Ross had 1/2 1998 62 earned the rank of lance corporal. Oh, yeah. The military wasn't without a touch of anti-Semitism. Most incidents were relatively minor, hurtful comments, with Ross being the target of crude remarks from fel- low Marines like: "You'd better not be a spy for Israel!," "We'll buy you some oven cleaner for your birthday," and "Got any relatives in the ash- tray?" His drill instructor bellowed: "Marine pork chops are good! You're gonna eat them, Private Ross!" But some were major. Like the time a swastika was drawn on his locker tag, and "Jew Boy" was written inside a hat. One night, a bunk mate whispered, "Let's burn the Jew!" and, as a "joke," set his mattress on fire. Ross is good-natured about such confrontations. He shrugs them off, attributing them to frustration from the strict discipline of the military, and ignorance ("Some of them had never met a Jew before," he says). Says Ross, an important part of military life is learning "to deal with others. After a while they realize we're all in this together." Wherever he was stationed, Ross always found at least one other Jewish Marine on base to hang out with. After being discharged, he and a buddy traveled to Israel for a year, volunteering on kibbutzim. Returning stateside, Ross attended the University of Michigan until '91, when he re-entered the military. He joined the Army Reserve, working as a chaplain assistant for three years. Ross is currently administrative sergeant in the Army's Active Guard Reserve Program with the 300th Military Police Command in Inkster. "It's just like a regular office job, except we get to wear these neat clothes," he says. Yes, he's patriotic. "The military is important," says Ross, "for protecting peace, for keeping our status quo of freedom and opportunity. Besides — you get paid to exercise!" At-ease, Ross volunteers at Sinai's rehab department and broadcasts the inspirational "Positive Tips" for the Detroit Radio Information Service at WD ET. And, for women who go wild over men in uniform: six-foot-two, eyes of blue, and unattached. "The Army hasn't issued me a wife yet," Ross deadpans. ❑