EdItoR's NoTe ne of my favorite Disney films is Pinocchio. I !ike the fact that there are no terri- bly violent scenes, such as are found in newer Disney productions including Lion King and Beauty and the Beast. Even the film's villain, that marvelous fox with the top hat who sings "Hi diddle de dee, an actor's life for me! You wear your hair in a pompadour, you ride around in a coach of four, you stop and buy out a candy store, an actor's life for me!" is relatively tame. I also admit that no matter how many times I see it, I always get a little misty-eyed when Pinocchio turns into a real boy. It's such a wonderful idea: wish for something — not a fancy new car or a big- ger house, but a dream from the heart — and it comes true. Some months ago Oprah Winfrey suggested viewers write down the good things that happen to them each day. She promised it would be a life-changing experience. This way, she said, we would begin to see how fortunate we really are and appreciate our blessings. The other day I began to think about some of the things I have prayed for — not the frivolous requests, because I confess there have been times when I have been in a terrible rush and said, "Please God, let me make that stoplight" — but the true desires. And I was taken aback, speechless almost, to find that I had received everything for which I had asked. At the top of my list was a family. For the life of me I can't understand this notion (popularized on so many TV shows) that the single life is just one big swinging, non-stop party. It may mean fewer responsibilities, but it means a great deal of loneli- ness, too. I don't know, honestly, how I could function without my hus- band. Not only does he actually know where to add brake fluid in the car, he brings me chocolate and flowers and perfume, comforts me when I am sad, and is always, always on my side. I'm sure I could say to him, "Today I told everyone I passed on the street, 'You're an idiot!' Was I wrong?" and he would say, "Of course not! They mustthave deserved it." Then I prayed for children and, as those of you who have been kind enough to read my column each week know, I have three. I prayed for good health, for a roof over my head, and for the well-being of friends and family. Many of you helped me pray for baby Lydia Lacey, the granddaughter of my mother's best friend. Recently I learned that Lydia, who had a 95- plus percent chance of being blind and deaf fol- lowing her illness, made a complete recovery. Physicians told the family it was literally a mira- cle. There have been other dreams ful- filled, too. When I was a young girl it was my dream to grow up and be a reporter. I wanted to write, write, write. As I matured, I came to realize that getting paid to write, write, write is a privilege, because today most employers are looking for computer technicians or secretaries, and besides, half the world's population is convinced it can write (the other half, of course, are aspiring actors). The next time you're feeling blue, I encourage you to take a few moments and reflect on your own life. Think back to all the times you have asked God to help you, and consider how often your prayers were answered. I imagine that, like me, you will find yourself extraordi- narily grateful. \it Elizabeth Applebaum AppleTree Editor 2 11 vs. 11 Outdoor Fields INDOOR 2 Join the Largest Year Roure Indopor Socreer Complex in he Country, 6 vs. 6 Indoor Soccer Arenas 1-888.711-8711 LEAGUES FOR ALL AGES REGISTERING NOW! PLANNING A PARTY? CHECK OUT 1-800-802-0082 (248) 661-4021