sTNGife What to give, what to give? her just another pretty scarf or sweater set. Instead, some family members pitched in and assembled a book of memories. With each family member responsi- ble for a one-page letter and a photo- graph or other memento, the creators mounted the contributions in a book and presented it during a party held in her honor. While this is geared more toward significant birthdays and anniversaries, it can be tailored toward Chanukah as well. 3. A trip down memory lane, Part 2. Also on her birthday, Minnie Broner and her family members boarded a chartered bus and toured all of the sites of her life. The stops included her girl- hood home, the synagogue at which she was married, the places she and her family lived and her old school. The evening was capped with a dinner at her favorite restaurant, Joe Muer's Steakhouse in Detroit. 4. Send others on a trip. When David Hermelin turned 60, his friends were perplexed. And why shouldn't they have been? They had the challenge of finding a suitable present for one of the area's wealthiest and most generous men. Gathering their wits and their cash reserves, the friends raised $80,000 and sent a group of college students on an archeological dig at the Zippori excava- tion site. The trip, in honor of David Hermelin, took University of Michigan students to Israel's central Galilee region for a five-week educational expe- rience that carried a minimal cost and the bonus of college credits. "[The project] incorporated all the things David cares about: young peo- ple, Israel, the University of Michigan," said Penny Blumenstein, a friend of Hermelin's and organizer of the gift collection. 5. Roll the dice. Plan a night of fun during the festival of lights, casino lights that is. Grab a gaggle of friends, take up a collection and whisk the offender off for a night of fun in Windsor, Las Vegas, or — shucks, if you can do it — Monte Carlo to gam- ble the night away. Any money that is left over can be donated to the gift recipient's favorite charity. 6. Start them collecting. My moth- er-in-law can confound even the most I l lustration by Kathryn Adams - Twelve ideas for the people who have everything. JILL DAVIDSON SKLAR Special to The Jewish News 11/28 1997 G12 o you have one of those peo- ple on your gift list who has everything? They own every cool accessory ever created by the very best designers. They never wait for sales and they have baubles that compete with Liz Taylor's collection. When you ask what they want for Chanukah or their birthday, they smile sweetly and say, "Only your presence at dinner/ party/ soiree." You secretly hate them for this, don't you? The following are 12 gift suggestions for those kind of people: 1. For kids who have it all. The Allied Jewish Campaign is boasting a new project this year to encourage tzedakah. Parents, grandparents and friends now may choose to make a donation to the campaign in place of giving their favorite child a gift. The upside for the kid? They get to choose which of a handful of organiza- tions in the Unite States, the former Soviet Union or Israel will get the cash. They also get their name on the Jewish community's scroll of honor in June, a certificate and a key chain bearing a Chanukah logo to commemorate the event. The minimum contribution is $18 or chai and goes up in increments of chai. The deadline for applications and donations is Dec. 5. For more informa- tion, call Tanya Mazor-Posner at (248) 203-1456. 2. A trip down memory lane, Part 1. When Minnie Broner turned 80 this past May, her family didn't want to get