JIIGife JILL DAVIDSON SKLAR Special to The Jewish News Y of ou D uring this time of the year, it's impossible to escape reminders of thankfulness. , As Thanksgiving comes and goes, oes 3 friends and families share meals and laughter. As the first snow falls, who hasn't been at least a little bit grateful for the warm, if not styl- ish, coat in the closet of the toasty, if not gorgeous, home? But for others who don't have friends and families to rely upon, who don't have meals to share or warm coats or covers in which to wrap themselves, the holiday season ushers in a sense of dread. "There are always extra needs at this time of the year," says Sister Cecilia Marie Zondl of the Coalition On Temporary Shelter (COTS) in Detroit. "People need a little bit more help during the winter." The season of giving serves as a reminder that the needs of the poor know no season. While the feeling that comes with giving warms the heart in the cold months, spring, summer and fall also are good times to make a donation or volunteer to help. "We'll serve 1,000 meals on Thanksa b ivinc, b and have 1,500 volun- teers," says Jerry Brisson, development director of the Capuchin Soup Kitchen. If that generosity could pour over into the other days of the year, many agencies would be better off. "We try to find as many places for people to serve food as we can, but the reality is that [Christmas Day] is not when the majority of help is needed," explains Joanie Berger of the Community Outreach Department at the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit. Family opportunities abound dur- ing the holiday season. "It's a really easy time for people to volunteer with Left: Steve and Howard Tapper, of Tapper's Diamonds and Fine Jewelry, held their sixth annual coat drive this season with coats. Tapper's distributed coats to the Pontiac Lighthouse and Orchards Children's Services. Bottom: Eve?), Saturday Gleaners Community Food Bank is busy with volunteers packaging food for the homeless. The holiday season and the other days of the year provides opportunities galore for volunteers and givers. C--