Teram learned how to dance American-style. Although the weather was warmer in California than Detroit, the Israelis said the hospitality was warmer here. "It's.very interesting meeting African-American people," said .Meroz. "They're not fake." Isachar agreed. "My host family here is big. I met the grandma, and she's like mine back in Israel. They're very close, and it's easy to talk to them. I love it. Everyone kissed and hugged me when I went to church with them." "In Santa Barbara," said Maytar Duadi, "people were nice, but there was space between them and us. Here, I felt like I could ask for anything I wanted ... Here, the kids in classes are very interested to hear about Israel. In Santa Barbara, the kids didn't seem as interested; it seemed like they were only asking questions because the teacher expected it." In addition to feeling comfortable with their hosts, several Israelis said it was exciting learning firsthand about African-American cul- ture. "The most important thing about Detroit was my facing finally the African- Americans as a big popula- tion and seeing everyday life," said Tidhar Wald. "All we knew about America was from television. I knew real life was not just gangs, but I had wanted to see that, want- ed reassurance." Wald said he enjoyed learning more African- American history from his host, Cass Tech senior David Kuhn, one of five Detroit teens who visited Israel last year through the exchange program. "I had known about slavery and the history of racism, but it was something to finally meet someone who tells me his name is German because that was the name of his ancestors' master," said Wald. But adapting to Detroit life wasn't always easy. The Israeli teens were used to a more independent lifestyle than their peers. "It was hard getting used to the school," said Duadi. "The rules here are so strict. In Israel, we don't have to ask permission for so many things." The Israelis also had to adapt to 11/21 1997 9