• • How often do we wish that what we treasure in our lives could last forever: a loving glance, a passionate kiss, the melodic, high-pitched trill of our children's laughter, or a day when our joyful mood seems to be matched by all that surrounds us? Knowing that the next moment will come with a relentlessness we can't control, we clutch the present one to us, savoring its sweetness before it becomes one more treasured memory. • Inevitably, the end of Sabbath comes with the appearance of three bright stars in the heavens. An ordinary day will follow, but first there will be a sip of wine, a look at the bright light from the braided candle of Havdalah, and a breath of aromatic spice that will come from a little cache of cloves, mace or perhaps cinnamon, held in a delicately crafted holder, the HADAS. Before the ceremony is over, every sense will have been satisfied in order to emphasize that, yes, Judaism is religion of prayer but also of action, pleasure, and joy. So it is with the Sabbath, an all too short twenty-five hour day when all of these, life's most tender experiences, are possible. Contemplating Sabbath's end is a bittersweet burden. We beg for time, wishing that tomorrow could be held at arm's length, if only for a few more minutes, just as the Jews did many centuries ago when they lovingly created the ceremony of Havdalah. With its blessings, wine, braided candles and spice box forged into a short ceremony at Sabbath's end, Havdalah has the power to distract us with its beauty from the inevitable pain that comes with the loss of something much loved and cherished. One small culinary treasure comes to us as having been part of the Havdalah ceremony of Middle European and Eastern European Jews several centuries ago. Its origin is impossible to date, but its raison d'etre is easily understood. Called simple ZIMSTERNE (zim-stern-eh), "to the stars" in Yiddish, it is a sweet, spicy morsel, an attempt to momentarily confine the Sabbath's spiritual sweetness and piquancy to a tidbit which will evanesce on the tongue just as surely as day becomes night. It was also the custom to eat Zimsterne to break the Yom Kippur fast. Shaped like a star and tasting of honey and cinnamon, ginger and cloves, the Zimsterne's pleasant taste and all that had gone before it, it was hoped, would provide the spiritual and physical sustenance needed to face the days ahead. RECIPES ZIMSTERNE Using an electric mixer, cream butter and sugar. Add eggs and beat at medium speed until mixture is well blended. Add honey. At low speed, add 4 cups of flour, a cup at a time, beating until mixture is thick and flour has been completely absorbed. Add the last cup of flour and spices by hand. Refrigerate dough for 2 hours. Preheat oven to No• Roll out dough on floured board or cloth. Cut into star shapes. Make glaze with beaten egg yolk to which a few drops of food coloring has been added. Line a greased baking sheet with wax paper. Place cookies on baking sheet; brush or smear a little of the glaze over the tops. Bake for 15 minutes. Remove cookies from wax paper while they are still warm. Shabbat Recipes 4 tablespoons butter or margarine (1/2 stick) i cup sugar 3 eggs 1/3 cup honey 5 cups flour, sifted 3/4 teaspoon baking soda i i/8 teaspoons ground cinnamon 1/2 teaspoon ground cloves 1/4 teaspoon ground mace or nutmeg i egg yolk plus food coloring