Making Time For TV Young adults somehow find a way to watch, but what, why and when is a whole different program. JULIE WEINGARDEN . Special to The Jewish News T here's always one TV show that grabs you in the gut. For me it's "Party of Five." Rarely do I get through an episode without crying. Many young Jewish adults first tuned in to,shows merely to learn and laugh. Maybe they started with "Sesame Street" and eventually moved on to "The Brady Bunch" or "Charlie's Angels". My pre-teen Saturday nights were spent watching "Love Boat" and "Fantasy Island." In high school I had to catch "General Hospital" and "Dynasty," but then I gravitated toward dramas. In college I was glued to "Thirtysomething." I was not even in my 20s yet, but something about Michael's struggle to find his Jewish identity when in reality he was married to non- Jewish Hope was compelling.' 11/7 1997 82 Today, I tune in to see how "Ally McBeal" func- tions while working with the love of her life, who is now married to someone else. I root for Carole and Doug on "ER" and watch Claudia try to hold her family together on "Party of Five" with no mother or father to turn to. Although I love to read, I admit it: I watch TV. Even those who claim they don't "do" TV or don't have the free hours to watch it, probably log in some boob tube time. For exam- ple, Jillian Levitan, 23, of Birmingham, insists that people watch "Beverly Hills 90210." "Everyone who says they don't watch it lies. They watch it. They know who Brandon Walsh and Donna Martin are." Levitan, who works at Detroit Edison, says she is addicted to it. "I don't mean to watch it. It's just a thing in me. I got addicted in college. Watching it was an event, a party." When she graduated, she couldn't kick the habit. It's amazing that young, edu- cated adults are lured into the soap opera storylines. "I mean Kelly on `90210' can't model any- more because of the fire. She had a miscarriage and was addicted to cocaine ... Brandon was going to go to Seattle but couldn't because his girlfriend had amnesia! I'm going to be 30 and I'm still watch- ing this show. I have a love/hate relation- ship with it," says Levitan. TV influences young adults. Whether personal grooming (think: Jennifer Aniston's layers, George Clooney's Caesar or Luke Perry's sideburns) or personal style (Tori Spelling's baby T-shirts, Heather Locklear's short, short skirts and Jeremy London's oversized suede jacket). "Ally McBeal" may be setting the styles for this season with the lead character's sexy suits, but she's not completely believable. "I watch Ally but it's not realistic," says Rachel Bordman, a 25-year-old lawyer. "It's not realistic because she goes to work without pantyhose, spends all day talking about her relationships and doesn't worry about billings. Bordman, who also watches "The Nanny" for its Jewish humor, says her guy friends like "The Simpsons." Eric Bronstein, a 27-year-old lawyer, says "The Simpsons" is the funniest show on TV. "It has -little gems of social commentary woven into it." He adds that most of his women friends watch "Melrose Place" and "everyone — no matter their gen- der — watches `Seinfeld.'" It's no surprise that three of the favorite shows viewed by young " Detroiters are on Fox — the network that broke the mold and developed hip shows for the MTV generation. "Ally McBeal," "Party of Five" and "90210" are the hot picks. All three shows target women between the ages of 18 and 49, according to Tom Tyrer, vice president of corporate communications for Fox Broadcasting. "Party of Five" is Fox's most improved returning series this season, with a 24 percent increase in total viewers — 22 percent among adults ages 18-49. It's hard to believe the 1996 Golden Globe winner for best dramatic series was almost canceled early in its life for lack of viewers. Perhaps Fox underestimated the taste of young men. Although "Party" marks women as its main followers, there are plenty of males loyal to the show. "I watch 'Party of Five,"' says Jeff Greenfield, 24, who works in advertis- ing. "It's a different scenario of evening drama." The Waterford resi- dent also tunes in to "Monday Night Football," "Saturday Night Live" and NBC's must see Thursday nights — "Friends," "Seinfeld" and "ER." In addition to "Monday Night