Health You are cordially invited to the 4th annual Reva Stocker Educational Lecture Ten Myths About Babies presenting Tipper Gore Mental Health Policy Advisor to the President and wife of Vice President Al Gore The Ties That Bind: The Family- 2000 and Beyond JEWISH sponsored by SERVICE Thursday, November 6, 1997 12:15 p.m. Congregation Shaarey Zedek 27375 Bell Road, Southfield Co-hosted by '1 Dessert reception to follow lecture No charge Reservations required. Call Betty Barach, (248) 559-1500, ext. 231, by October 28 You can't always be there for Mom & Dad in Florida... but we can! We watch out for your loved ones every day Our Care Managers provide professional, compassionate support Your parents can live independently, and you will still have peace of mind CHARLYN FARGO Special to The Jewish News f a baby cries, he or she must be hungry. A baby cries for a variety of reasons, including as part of development. Meet the baby's needs and listen for changes in a cry. In pregnancy, if a mother holds her hands over her head, the baby will get tangled up in its cord. Babies float in a fluid environment and mom's activity doesn't affect the baby. If a new mom puts a knife under the pillow while in labor it will cut the pain. Knives do not cut pain; relaxation techniques work to relax mother and ease delivery. Sex during the last month of preg- nancy will hurt the baby. Actually, the baby is cushioned in a protective environment. Sex will not hurt the baby. If your mother delivered her chil- dren in 20 minutes or fewer, you will, too. Each mother is an individual and length of labors can't be compared. My baby should sleep through the night. While babies spend as many as 18 Charlyn Fargo writes for Copley News Service. (-- hours a day asleep, their sleep isn't lik that of adults. Adults spend up to 80' percent of their sleeping time in sound, deep sleep, compared to orly about 20 percent for new babies. For the rest of their sleeping time, babies are lightly dozing. If a new mother is organized, she can continue to do what she did before she had a newborn. Newborns take a great amount of; time. Cut your expectations in half. The immaculate home, gourmet meals and fastidiously organized c, schedule aren't as important for the moment as taking care of the baby and yourself. Use paper plates and j use your answering machine to allow yourself to nap. Rather than working when baby sleeps, restore your ener- gY. A fat baby is a healthy baby. The fact is, fat babies often turn out to be fat adults. Solid foods will help a baby sleep through the night. There is no proof, but even if solid foods help a baby sleep they shouldn't be started before the doctor recom- mends it, usually when the baby is four to six months old. Wearing shoes will help a baby walk sooner. Just the opposite is true. Keepin,,' baby barefoot will strengthen his mus des and help him learn to walk more quickly. Sleepless in America 56 million people report that pain interrupts a good night's sleep. Trouble falling asleep Awakened during the night 79% 65% Full needs assessment & individualized care plan Referrals for community services Coordination and monitoring of support services Supportive counseling Socialization Source: National Sleep Foundation Richard Ashton / Copley News Service 10/31 1997 140 Serving Boca Raton, Highland Beach, Delray Beach