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I am proud to say that I have a Soon after I completed my driver's great driving record — and I always ed course, taught by Coach Wallace know what to do when I see those at Biloxi High in Mississippi, my fami- eight-sided red signs these days. ly moved to Missouri and I sort of let Now I happen to think that strict things lapse. For months I didn't regulations determining who can drive, and then a neighbor pushed drive are important. Yet I wonder me to it. Believe it or not, he was an why it is that we require so much of attorney — a husky, jovial sort. future drivers, but nothing of future "There's nothing to this driving stuff!" parents. he insisted, and took me out in his You don't need a per- car one sunny afternoon. It was mit to have a child not a pleasant experience. in this country. You After that, my father don't need any train- worked with me. He ing. There are no patiently guided me as :- tests, no interviews, I "drove," with lots of no rules. Why? uneven stops and starts, I see so many terrible in our old blue Volvo. parents today, hear so Then at last came The Big Day. many stories about child abuse, I quickly passed my written exam, that I can't help but wonder whether noting with pride that I actually knew some kind of required courses might the answer to all those ludicrous ques- be a good idea for couples wishing tions like, "What is the speed limit if to have children. you are driving a 12-ton truck filled If I were the examiner, I would ask with explosives along a rural route prospective parents how they plan to with construction on Tuesday discipline, who would care for the evening?" I mean, who thinks these child in his infancy, whether the cou- things up? Is it the same person who ple had the financial wherewithal to writes those questions like: What provide the child with food and cloth- should you do if you see a pedestri- ing, and what kind of values the par- an standing in the road ahead of ents themselves hold. you? Above all, though, I would ask the A) Stop couple why they want children. B) Forge ahead at 90 mph There is only one correct answer to C) Blast your horn and scream, this question. "Get out of the road, you idiot!" Why do we have children? To care — or something along those lines. for them, to hold them, to kiss them, Anyway, I passed the written exam. to support them, to guide them, to Then I got in the car. I hadn't been sing them songs, to snuggle with there for two minutes when I drove them, to put bandages on their down a one-way street. The wrong scraped knees, to read them books, • way. to admire their school projects, to Two weeks later I was back. push them on swings, to comfort Undaunted, armed with confidence them when they crawl into bed with ("You can do it!" my mother said) I us in the middle of the night. forged ahead. Three minutes into the We have children to love them. exam the instructor told me to pull to the side of the road. "I guess you did- n't notice that eight-sided red sign Elizabeth Applebaum with the letters S-T-O-P back there, did AppleTree Editor you?" c C_