Introducing Luminetterm Privacy Sheers '' All the light of classic sheers. All the privacy of soft draperies. All the possibilities you can imagine. "7517M. Torah Portion In Judging Ourselves, Work For Betterment and loving since last Yom Kippur? Are' we really being honest when we belie< — or pretend to believe — that we can, in fact, change? The Jewish tradition declares emphatically that to be human is to have the capacity for change and growth and development. Have you ever had a disagreement with someone his Sabbath has a special des- you are trying to persuade, influence ignation in the Jewish calen- guide, and you hear the response, dar. It is known as Shabbat "That's the way I am; that's my nature;` Shuvah, the Sabbath of take it or leave it." The ideas are to be return. condemned on several counts. During this time we are urged to First, it isn't true. Second, it is as undergo moral self-examination, libel against the human per- Chesbon Ha nefesh, so that we sonality. Third, its an insult might address our faults and against the Almighty who out transgressions that we made us capable of change may seek to eliminate them and improvement. The deep-) in the year ahead. er truth is that we are not ( In the Talmud, three sages today what we were yesterdayl discuss the question as to and we don't have to be when a person ought to tomorrow what we are todk repent. Rabbi Yossi says that Teshuvah means that you we are not to wait for Rosh have to take responsibility for Hashanah and Yom Kippur RAB BI your life, and make those for "man is judged every day" I RWI N decisions that will enable you and he ought to improve GRON ER to be all that God intended every day. Spe cial you to be. Rabbi Natan is more strict" to The In order to change our- in his view, for he states, "A Jewish News selves, we have to fervently person is judged every hour." believe that we can change, Therefore, repentance is that we can respond to the call of required at each moment. self-liberation. Rabbi Meir, whose opinion is We must believe that we can indeed authoritative, rules that we are judged become more devoted to those whose on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur; and this time is, therefore, the season of lives are linked with our own, more -/ understanding of the needs and hopes penitence. and fears of others. What were the sages arguing about? We can become more faithful in Rabbi Yossi and Rabbi Natan want us assuming our obligations to our people, to recognize that man lives under our heritage, our community, our judgement constantly. While Rabbi Jewish way of life. Meir may not disagree, he is more of a We can become more honest in our realist. A person can't cope with the relationships, More sensitive to our notion that he lives under judgement moral and spiritual well being. We can every moment and that every day is become quicker to forgive, slower to \7 Yom Kippur. This concept overwhelms condemn. us. Consequently, Rabbi Meir says, and In order to change, we have to the decision is with him, we recognize believe that we are free moral agents, designated times for assuming the chal- capable of exercising power of choice in lenges of teshuvah, for the act of turn- response to the challenge of the Torah._, ing in repentance. "I have set before you life and death, But can we, in fact, overcome our the blessing and the curse; therefore, faults? Are they not so deeply ingrained choose life that you may live, you and in our nature that try as we might, we your descendants." are fooling ourselves when we believe that we can eradicate them? 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