A Division of drapery boutique_ To begin the family Rosh Hashanah challah cover, I scavenged through my fabric stash and found the perfect soft-blue, sky/watery print cotton. The spiral was "drawn" on the fabric with the stretchy masking tape used to mask curves for painters. I assembled a variety of Mae Rockland Tupa with Liana and Jacob. beads in a sectioned, plastic container, then Since I was sewing, the children brought my little kit with me on our also wanted to sew, and from an spring visits with the children in early age my two boys and daugh- Washington, D.C., Massachusetts ter managed quite well a needle and Colorado. and thread. I was a bit shy starting out, sure Now it is the grandchildren want they would throw up their hands ing to "help" by pulling basting and say, "there she goes again, threads, sliding a bead along until another one of her 'projects. — How it gets "home," or making- stitches nice to be wrong. Since having on their own. They always are been elevated to bubbiehood, I encouraged and have been intro- find that my children are less ready duced to needles and thread before to dismiss my activities than they age 3. were before parenthood. Everyone My concept of time changed dur- was enthusiastic, wanted to be ing the early years of motherhood. included, and immediately got into Everything seemed to be repeating. the beading. David, Pam, Alan, In ways I never thought possible, I Jessica, Keren, Matt, Myron, Jeffrey, had become my mother. I conclud- Liana and Jacob each carefully ed, along with a popular country chose the beads, buttons, or shells song of the time, that "all of life's a he or she found appealing and circle." earnestly sewed them in place Then the children spun off, as they alongside the masking-tape guide. I are meant to do, and began form- added some small, quiet blue, silver ing their own families. and white beads in the spaces Now that I am a soccer-Bubbie I between the other family artisans have concluded that time is neither and finished the edges by seaming a line nor a circle; it is spiral. We "prairie points" (made by folding a return over and again to the same 2" square of fabric in half, then events, holidays and choices, but it turning down the corners much as is never exactly the same. We are one makes a paper hat. Iron in the at a different level of perception folds and sew into the seam) and comprehension each time between the top and lining. around. Back in The Bronx I used to The High Holidays will once go with my father to watch his again find us each in different parts friends play soccer. Then soccer dis- of the country, but our beaded chal- appeared, and during high school I lah cover will enliven the table here taught my father the principles of in Brookline, with the loving pres- baseball, to which he became ence of the children and children's addicted. Now I go to soccer children. games to watch my grandchildren. • FLOOR SAMPLE S Ragazzi 0/ A I/ Infant & SALE ENDS Sept. 30th Off Juvenile Furnituir 90 DAYS SAME AS Call', CASH! Buy N i r, Walled Lk/Novi Canton 39500 Mie Rd. (248) 669-0330 42775 Ford Rd. (313) 981-7400 Ste 3 f7 M, hts Troy/Rochester (810) 795-1600 18 Mr A. 6046 Flo:haste. Rd. (248) 879-1010 M-56wHol INN Rms., Spa* Lake Fli *See Sae for demos For; BORDERS BOOK SHOP • 31150 Southfield Road (248) 644-1515 is very proud to present DR. GEORGE L. BLOOM answering "Everything you Ever Wanted to Ask your Pediatrician ... But Didn't Have the Time" WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 15, 7:00pm Enjoy an informative intro- duction to the brand-new American Academy of Pe- diatrics Guide to Your Child's Symptoms. Learn how to recognize illness or distress even when your child is too young to ex- plain "what hurts"! Topics will include allergies, growth and coordination problems, hyperactivity, fears, and the frequently ill child. Please join us! _ Advertise in our Entertainment Section! Call The Sales Department (248) 354-7123 Ext. 209 DIMWIT MILES WHIM 'TN 9/19 1997 63