/ Rabbi Herschel Finman of Oak Park. While learning in yeshiva, Finman watched a mailman arrive every day carrying overflowing sacks of letters addressed to the rebbe. Some question the way Lubavitchers seemed to wor- ship the rebbe, an idea frowned upon in Jewish law. But Finman explains it wasn't worshipping, it was recognizing the rebbe as "an ideal — everybody has to have somebody to look up to, somebody who is going to supply spir- itual mentorship. The Jews had it with Moses, and in every generation there's been a successor. "The word rebbe is sometimes used as an acrostic for rosh b'nai Yisroel, leader of the children of Israel." The Talmud says the Messiah will be a tzaddik (righteous person), alive or deceased. "Every great rabbi through the centuries knew they were capable of being the Messiah," says Rabbi Bergstein. "It can't really be a hidden tzaddik. It has to be a public figure who has public authority and works on bringing people back ... In this generation, there was no one like the Lubavitcher rebbe, I can tell you that." Bergstein says the schism between Lubavitchers who believed the rebbe was the Moshiach and those who did- n't existed prior to his death. "The rebbe was saying these are the times of Moshiach. We, here in Detroit, assumed that meant it was our job to tell the world that Moshiach was going to come. Our job was not to make any kinds of coronations or posters with an individual ... 80 percent of shluchim (emis- saries) felt the same way "After the rebbe's stroke, Far left: Rabbi Menachem there were people Schneerson died in 1994. who felt that we should now publi- Far left, top: Rabbi cize that he was Herschel Finman, bottom: the messiah who Rabbi Yitschak Kagan was ... and that he was suffering for • This page, clockwise from us. Most of us did top left: Rabbi Elimelech not believe that ... Silberbe, Ghana Finman, 'bout doing it themselves, it's a life work — that part everyone's totally .greement about." Zabbi Yitschak Kagan, associate ctor of the Lubavitch Foundation vlichigan, says Lubavitchers now .nk about the rebbe more — obvi- )we miss him. If you read the 1that other people have written ut the rebbe, not Lubavitchers, the rd that comes up more than any is 'presence,' he had this amaz- presence, it seemed to envelop ple he had conversations with. ting a dollar from the rebbe and good wishes and looking into his blue eyes — that is something • -uss. Since the rebbe died, "we tend to together more often," with more luent regional conventions, involv- I-_,bbis from five or six states, he s. "In Michigan, we didn't really re a steady set of meetings, and we now, the shluchim meet about once nth." Ube rebbe still gives direction to his issaries, Kagan says. "He taught me 42 years. He influenced me. That luence is with me. Forget the elec- nic recording — think about the recording." "There's a unique relationship :ween the Chasid and the rebbe, a 1-,y personal relationship," explains / / ,, 1; 25V, '" C C Rabbi Chaim Bergstein Bergstein believes the intent was not to publicize an individual, but to publicize the con- cept of messianic times, to increase the beliefs of the Jewish people. When a boss goes away, the employee doesn't stop working, Rabbi Rabin says. "It's an outlook on life that the rebbe gave over and shared, wkich is very alive. It's not a tempo- rary thing, doesn't depend on one individual." Many Lubavitcher families still have framed photographs of the rebbe on the walls of their homes. But for some, it has been a lonely since the rebbe died. "When I would be faced by a crisis, I would always think of the rebbe," Bergstein says. "Emotionally, I felt a closeness ... It's hard for me to do that The rebbe was an "ideal." with the rebbe deceased, to deal with the rebbe in an ethereal manner. "To me the rebbe's greatness was the fact that he was always there, never took a day's vacation, always answering queries, always concerned with other people. Because you don't see that, it's lonely." Rabbi Elimelech Silberberg, of Bais Chabad of West Bloomfield, says "like anything else, you get used to things. "The rebbe was, for most of us, not that approachable for over 25 years — the movement got so big. In the first years of the rebbe's leadership, it was possible to go and have a private audi- ence with the rebbe; the last 20-25 years that became impossible." "For most Chasidim like ourselves, the rebbe was a source of inspiration. The Zohar tells us that a tzaddik's inspiration remains in the world after he passes on and even more so." But one big difference now is the lack of Torah "giants," Silberberg says. Lubavitch or not, "when I was grow- ing up you had giants: Rabbi Moshe Feinstein, Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveitchik — there isn't a group like that anymore." 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