Our BETH ACHIM family would like to invite YOUR family to join us for in the many educational, holiday and social events that are celebrated in a warm, festive atmosphere. re-establishing bath time and sto- children are really surprised by ry time. For teenagers, insist that what's in their lunch boxes, and they be home by a certain time, you'ld be amazed at how much is and settled down somewhere in thrown out," says Fiscella. Let them help pack, and maybe the house to veg out. "By 10, I want my kids in their they'll eat more. `The most important thing for rooms," says Talan, whose sons are 14, 12 and 9. "They can be a child's success in starting school watching TV, reading, listening again is a positive attitude from to music, but they should be in a parents," says Fiscella. 'Pry to be quieter setting and not roaming more positive about everything, and they will be. Do not complain around." Judy Fiscella and Jeanne Law- to them about school starting ear- son, teachers at Birmingham's ly, before Labor Day, or what Quarton Elementary School, teacher they have, or who is or agree that getting to bed early, if isn't in their class. "Tell them they will have a possible beginning a week earli- great year, and a good time with er, is important. "Begin gradually," says Fiscel- friends in their class, and it will la. "Any little bit helps." They sug- be a positive learning experience." Wendy Talan agrees. 'The key gest waking children earlier in the morning, rather than letting them is to have positive, logical and nat- have those last few days of sleep- ural consequences as a result of ing in late. They also recommend re-establishing routines," she says. giving your children a good break- "That's what leads to brighter fast, not just at the beginning of thinking, better alertness, more energy, better school productivity the school year, but always. And they agree with Talan and positive peer relationships." Or our schools could all switch about resuming a consistent evening reading program with to an extended year system, such your children, because it gets as the one Way Elementary them back to the habit of reading School has in Bloomfield Hills. Karen Rouff, whose children and thinking. "I always ask my students to Alana, 10, and Eric, 7, have al- bring their favorite book to school ready resumed school, says, 'The at the beginning of the year," says adjustment has been very easy. Fiscella. "It gets them into the They just glide into the next year. reading mode, and I get to see They have no anxiety because the what they like, and what level transition is so smooth, there is no build-up." they are at." With a shorter At Way Elementary, Another tip the teach- vacation, the back- children switch grades ers offer is allowing your to-sc hool children the opportuni- transition is easier and classrooms the last two weeks of June, and ty to select some of their for the Rouff when they go back in school supplies and fam ily. mid-August, they have clothes. While some schools offer school supplies for already spent some time with purchase, and other schools man- their new teacher and class. date a uniform, Lawson and Fis- There is also less time to lose good cella explain that the ownership habits and routines. "On Friday they are in one of the purchasing process is very important for children, and they grade, and on Monday they are feel they are participating in the in another," explains Rouff. "In decisions affecting them, and are August, they just put on their more likely to feel positive about shorts and T-shirts and go." For the rest of us, the count- the decisions. That process also translates to letting children help down is on for going back to pack their own lunches. "Often school. 0 We have programs for all interests including our intimate Supper Series in member homes, and our family Hanukah and Purim dinners. Please join us as our programming year begins on Friday, August 29, 1997 and Saturday, August 30, 1997, when we host Rabbi Ira Stone, the Conservative Movement's Scholar-In-Residence. For more information and High Holiday tickets please call or fax us at: Office (248) 352-8670 Fax (248) 352-5752 Congregation Beth Achim 21100 West Twelve Mile Road, Southfield, Michigan 48076 • A yclitooI TIAAT frerde5 i14-1.6y(Ate;' ACAdavtiC COKCe-114 dadec4T WitlA litlAVIAAK C01/166( GEORGE ROEPER, CO-FOUNDER THE ROEPER SCHOOL DEDICATED TO THE EDUCATION OF GIFTED CHILDREN LOWER SCHOOL AGE 3 THROUGH GRADE 5 2190 NORTH WOODWARD BLOOMFIELD HILLS EAST SIDE OF WOODWARD BETWEEN LONG LAKE & SQUARE LAKE MIDDLE/UPPER SCHOOL GRADES 6 THROUGH 12 1051 OAKLAND AVENUE BIRMINGHAM WEST SIDE OF ADAMS TWO BLOCKS NORTH OF MAPLE Come See Tke Ro e F cf. eireKce! FOR MORE INFORMATION, PLEASE CALL 248/203-7300 • den. e Uri Give a Gift *nlicoseription to -wis