Community Views Editor's Notebook Jewish Talking Sticks: The Power Of The Yad A U.S. Welfare Fix: Unfinished Business STACIE FINE SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH NEWS ALAN HITSKY ASSOCIATE EDITOR I recently had cus on deep listening with re- the opportunity spect and open ears. I decided that we would use to lead a Shabbat celebration on an object from our culture that the topic of Jew- also represented the power of the ish healing and word, an object that causes us to spirituality. I focus, pay attention and listen. approached the I chose to use a pointer, or yad, evening with fear which is generally used for the and trembling; Torah reading so our hands do never before had I chosen to al- not directly touch the Torah text low something so close to my itself. We carefully passed the heart, so personally powerful yad around the circle of our gath- and important to me, to become ering, and surprising things hap- public. I planned a full evening pened. of dance, breathing, chant and reflection. I paid a great deal of attention to detail. But those of you who know me know that my own Jewish spirituality has been enriched through past exposure to oth- er traditions, so I spent a great deal of time researching and experimenting with Jewish ways to meditate, move and create a sacred space. One of the out- side traditions that means a great deal to me is the tradition of the talking stick from Native Ameri- can practice. Gener- ally, people seated in a circle will use a dec- orated stick or other object to indicate who has the floor. The stick is passed around the circle un- til everyone has had a full say in the mat- ter. Those without the talking stick — First, several people tried to you guessed it — do not talk un- til it comes around to them. OK, use the yad as if it were a mi- it doesn't sound very Jewish, crophone that could amplify having just one person talking their voices. I suppose it was the with her hands occupied with an shape of the elaborate object that object preventing the arm flail- caused that to happen, but more ing and hand-wringing people importantly, this seemingly like me are known for; but, small aspect of the service had a nonetheless, it is powerful to fo- powerful effect. Many people said they hadn't held a Stacie Fine is an assistant rabbi yad since their bat or bar mitz- at the Birmingham Temple. vahs. It was a moment of recon- necting with a time long ago in their Jewish lives. Distant memories — some good, some bad — seem to come upon peo- ple, and many were choked-up. Even as interesting was the re- action of some of the older women in the group, who, when the yad came to them, said they had never touched a yad before. It had been for them a symbol of oppression, of their exclusion from the bimah or Torah read- ing, but on the night of this Shabbat celebration, they reclaimed it as a symbol of power and dignity. Some of them were teary- eyed as they spoke. Some were clearly enthused and ener- gized. Some were re- flective and as they held the yad, we lis- tened to their stories, their journeys, with respect and open hearts. Some may find the idea of using the yad in such a way offen- sive, but I would ask us all to consider the use, power and rich- ness of Jewish sym- bols in a new way. Rather than sitting icily as near-museum pieces, our cultural icons invite us to jump in with all the senses, with all the heart. When our symbols move from sentimental entities to powerful contem- porary opportunities, we have opened new doors to our tradition for many who feel alienated by flatness, lack of spirituality and institu- tionalization. Judaism does not belong in a museum; it belongs in a garden, where old plants scatter new seeds, and roots deep in the fertile soil of culture spring to life under the gardener's hands. It is in every one of us to be wise. ❑ TheDJN@aol . corn lis what Do You Think?" How can we mend the rift between Orthodox, Conservative and Reform? To respond: "So, What Do You Think?" 27676 Franklin load, Southfield, MI 48034 or: The DJN@aol.com Monday, Aug. 18, will be a happy day for Sara Broker rather than the looming disaster that it has been since February. Broker, 65, is a refugee from the former Soviet Union. For the last four years, she has cared for her cancer-stricken husband, Grigory Shteynbrg. He died ear- ly this year, and "I lost my best friend," said Broker. She and her husband lived in Northgate Apartments in Oak Park since coming to the Unit- ed States from Kiev. Next Mon- day marks five years since they arrived in this country. Until last week, Monday was a day of dread for Broker. Un- til last week, when President Clinton signed the budget ap- propriations bill that "fixed" the 1996 welfare reform legislation, Broker's Supplemental Securi- ty Income (SSI) of $491 per month, her food stamp allotment and her Medicaid were in jeop- ardy. Broker and other refugees were in a "Catch 22." Appli- cants may not apply for citizenship until they have lived in the United States at least four years and nine months. But the Im- migration and Naturalization Service (INS) is taking nine to 18 months to process and nat- uralize new citizens. Under the 1996 law, Broker could have lost her benefits next Monday while waiting for INS to process her citizenship application. The legislation extends SSI and Medicaid indefinitely for refugees who were receiving those benefits by Aug. 22, 1996. But it cuts out the up to $120 worth of food stamps. Any refugee who arrived since Aug. 22, 1996, is eligible for SSI and Medicaid for seven years from their arrival date. Agencies of the Jewish Fed- eration of Metropolitan Detroit have been gathering data and planning for a total cutoff since January. Although they now have breathed a sigh of relief over Congress' fix, the elimina- tion of food stamps remains a factor. "For someone living on $491 a month from SSI," said Rachel Yoskowitz, director of Jewish Family Service's resettlement department, "taking away [up to] $120 in food stamps will mean you have to make choic- es between food and medicine and eyeglasses." Federation set aside $500,000 to address the loss of welfare benefits for refugees and native- born Jewish poor had "the fix" not passed. Planning Associate Judah Isaacs estimated the po- tential cost to the Jewish com- munity at $1.3 million annually, "and it would have gotten larg- er." The food stamp issue will eventually affect some residents of Jewish Federation Apart- ments, who pay for their meals with those funds. But a prelim- inary study by Executive Direc- tor Marsha Goldsmith Kamin found no one who will be im- pacted for at least 18-24 months. A bigger concern for approx- imately 550 of JFA's 667 resi- dents was the possible ending of rent subsidies, but last week's federal budget legislation left those funds intact. So at the moment, the major concern for most refugees is food stamps. With Yad Ezra, the kosher food pantry, serving a preponderance of refugees each month, Federation, Jewish Fam- ily Service (JFS) and Yad Ezra have come up with a communi- ty plan: Federation has placed $100,000 into a fund to subsidize any Jew — refugee or citizen — who loses food stamps and does not have local fami- ly as a fall-back. Those who qualify through JFS will receive the standard Yad Ezra food pack- age, good for a week, plus a three-week "community pack- age" funded by Federation and Yad Ezra. Lea Luger and Elaine Ryke at Yad Ezra believe that 25 per- cent of the 1,000 families now seen monthly by the food pantry will be affected by the food stamp cutoff. But not all will qualify for the community package. "Food stamps lasted three weeks," said Luger, "and Yad Ezra was created to help with the fourth week. Now that's been turned upside down." Not everyone will lose their food stamps at the same time. But only immigrants since Au- gust 1996 will continue to qualz ify for food stamps, for a maximum of five years. While the experts believe some potential refugees re- mained in the former U.S.S.R. because of the welfare changes in the United States, Detroit still resettled 260 last year and they continue to come. But, points out Rachel Yoskowitz of JFS, 63 came in August a year ago and only 39 are scheduled to come this month. 'They're afraid," she said. 'They don't want to be de- A time limit for new immigrants. BUSINESS page 28