Dates That Rate The best dates you've had (or hope to .,.) JULIE EDGAR SENIOR WRITER Ax< Rowboating on the moonlit lake underneath a starry sky is Rick Goren's idea of a great date. As a staffer at Camp Tama- rack, Goren has access to a glassy lake or two, along with a pretty view and a gazebo at what is known in Tamarack circles as the Overlook. Con- versation into the wee hours would complete the picture, says the Farmington }Ells res- ident A picnic at Kensington — don't forget the cheese and crackers, wine and blanket -- appeals to Michele Goldstein of Birmingham. In the evening? Dinrier at Maria's in Ferndale, followed by a film at the Detroit Film Theatre and a drink at the Rhinoceros to hear live jazz. Stacy Levine recalls a par- ticularly fun date with her boyfriend: After a visit to the Detroit Zoo,they picnicked in Birmingham's Shain Park. They topped off the day with an evening of Scrabble. Throw in a bit of culture and you might end up at the man- made cascade in Jackson, a kitschy remnant of the past. Michael Epstein, a graduate student of American cultural `es at U M Ann Arbo t*PAthit "RIC? . at age 13 he started making pizzas and scooping ice cream at the Rib Shack. His job took him to Columbus, Ohio, but Barton eventually moved back to Michigan to manage another estab- lishment. Even later, he relocated again, that time for a romance. "I chased a girl who I thought I was in love with out to California. The day af- ter I got there, she dumped me," Bar- ton says. Despite being jobless and practically homeless, he stayed out West and eventually landed a position at the Four Seasons Hotel in Newport Beach. He stayed with the company, moving to Seattle and Chicago, until he went out on his own to open a restaurant in Fort Lauderdale, Fla. The Crystal Room opened its doors in 1991. When it closed in 1992, Bar- ton walked away with no money, no car and no job. Determined to make it on his own, though, he found work at a Boca Ra- ton restaurant, went back to school and eventually graduated with honors. For two years, he worked as a wait- er and also worked "on myself I was in group and individual therapy be- cause I felt I wanted to change my per- sonal direction in life. It was the best thing I ever did." In his free time, Barton runs, plays softball and hangs out with his two cats and his girlfriend (who moved to Detroit with him from Florida). In the fall he plans to return to school for a master's in business administration. Missing "-the stimulation of school," Barton says, "I want to do this for my- self" He is fluent in Hebrew, to which he entered the management training program. The restaurant industry credits his early years at Hillel Day was a natural choice for Barton — School. `T11 always carry that with me," en Barton Charlip was a lit- tle boy, he used to peer out the window of his grandfa- ther's downtown Detroit building and watch the Thanksgiving Day Parade. While other kids viewed it on TV, Barton was in the midst of all the action. Today, he stands in a similar spot, as owner of the new hip restaurant, Canfields on Woodward. The restau- rant is located in the historic structure built in 1920 that has been in his fam- ily's hands since 1940. The restaurant name came from the fact that it is located at the corner of Canfield and Woodward. "I had no clue what kind of restaurant I want- ed," says Barton, 35, who pulled to- gether everything he had learned from years in the biz. Canfields on Woodward opened Dec. 16, 1996. The space was available after the previous restaurant, Stew- art's, closed last June. "It just felt like the right time ... in my life. I was in a stable enough place with myself to take a chance," says Barton. But he wasn't always so stable. Bar- ton's path has been an arduous one, which thankfully led to where he is to- day. The oldest of five, Barton gradu- ated from West Bloomfield High School and completed two years of college at Michigan State Universi- ty. At MSU, he says he "partied and played" before realizing he was too young to take school seriously. So Barton moved back home, to work at Max & Erma's. He started as a bartender, then he says. "I feel strongly about being Jewish. It's inbred." His Jewish identity, however, is not what motivates him to offer Empire kosher chicken on the Canfields menu. "I wanted to cater to a Jewish clien- tele, but I bought the kosher chicken because it is clean, healthy and the best quality out there." The building that houses Canfields is a Detroit landmark — it once housed the Graystone Bar and Grill in the '60s and '70s as well as a boxing gym where Jake LaMotta's trainer, Al Denapoli, coached fighters during the `70s. But for Barton, the Canfields build- ing has sentimental value. "I kind of feel my grandfather's pres- ence here even though I was never in this building with him. I was never re- ally close to him, but I feel he is one of my guides, kind of watching over me." Keeping the past alive, the walls of Canfields are a tribute to old Detroit — adorned with pictures of the city, taken in the first half of the century. Barton's nostalgia for Detroit's good ol' days matches his excitement for the rebirth of Motown. "This is another building that's not boarded up. When people drive by, [they see] there is life." All but one of his 25 employees — many of whom are in their 20s — live in Detroit, which Barton also calls home. He lives two blocks from the restaurant. "I decided if I was going to be part of _the city's growth, it didn't make sense to live in West Bloomfield. I needed to live here in Detroit." One thing is certain: As long as 4265 Woodward stands, the next genera- tion of Charlips will be just a hop, skip and a jump from the Thanksgiving Day Parade. ❑ '`*ths, he said. t take adate to in Clinton for the C and a ve , "really ' t4='1.•. 4,4vev t play piano player the old piano` every" VI." A movie theater in town offers first-run features for $2. "It means taking a drive for 40 minutes, but I like getting out of town. There's a much more romantic element, too, be- cause you get to see new places," he said. In a romantic vein, Jill Schu- macher thinks an entire date planned by a guy is good. A trip to the cider mill also ranks up there with dreamy dates for Schumacher, a Berkley resident. Debbie Weinstei.n's idea of a great dinner date also is in- fused with romance. In cele bration of her boyfriend's birthday, she sent him an in- vitation for a home-cooked veg- etarian dinner. When he arrived, he found a menu on his plate, candles, flowers and mu- sic. Afterward, Weinstein took him to the Earle in Ann Arbor for dessert and jazz. ❑