Lag B'Omer is considered by some to be the central day of the Kabbalistic calendar. LYNNE MEREDITH COHN STAFF WRITER of preparation to Shavuot." He says each com- munity has the op- tion to determine during which 33 days of the Omer marriages cannot be performed. "Everybody agrees, however, that on Lag B'Omer you are permitted to Many Orthodox Jews bring their 3-year-old sons to have weddings," Rabbi Mount Meron on Lag B'Omer for a first haircut. Bergstein says. Lubavitchers also or 49 days between Pesach mark the 33rd day as the yahrtzeit and Shavuot, Jews count of the death of Rabbi Shimon bar the Omer, the centuries-old Yochai, author of the Zohar (the link between our physical principal work of Jewish mysti- liberation — the Exodus from Egypt — and our spiritual one, re- cism, the Kabbalah). Rabbi bar Yochai looked at his death as ful- ceiving the Torah. filling his mission in this world, On the holiday on Sunday, May so he told people before he died 25, Detroit's Jewish children may that the day of his passing should simulate shooting bows and ar- be celebrated as a happy occasion. rows while playing in local parks. Death, for Rabbi bar Yochai, In Israel, on the night before Lag was "for him a wedding, the com- B'Omer, it is customary to light ing to the highest level of human giant bonfires. "The study of Torah was pro- experience," Rabbi Bergstein says. died on his birthday. hibited [by the Romans] in the He Rabbi Bergstein's shul, Bais time following the Bar Kochba re- Chabad of Farmington Hills, is volt," says Rabbi Chaim Bergstein hosting a barbecue cookout on Tag of Bais Chabad of Farmington B'Omer. Hills. "So the people who want- Lag B'Omer is considered to ed to study Torah would go out to be the central day of the year in the field and make like they were the Kabbalah, Rabbi Bergstein shooting bows and arrows [but] says. Many make a pilgrimage study Torah. They had to engage to Rabbi bar Yochai's grave on in ruses. It's customary to go out in the field and have a picnic of Mt. Meron. Rabbi Bergstein estimates some sort in commemoration of that between 100,000 and how we survived during those 200,000 people flock to the site times," he says. on. Lag B'Omer, some setting up The 33rd day (lag in Hebrew) camp, and Sephardim slaugh- of the Omer count is celebrated as ter sheep and goats there. a holiday, Lag B'Omer, for two In the 1930s, a woman reasons, according to the rabbi. brought her 3-year-old son to the Between Pesach and Shavuot in the early second century, site for his first haircut. ("It is 24,000 disciples of Rabbi Akiva customary among the Orthodok died because, says Rabbi Berg- in Israel to take their child's first haircut in Meron near the grave stein, they were not respectful to of Rabbi bar Yochai," Rabbi each other. Each felt his opinion Bergstein says.) was the right one, and as a result, But, because of an infectious strife arose between them. disease, the little boy died in the On the 33rd day, according to room where the grave is located. tradition, they stopped dying. The woman took the little boy "Only five major students of Rab- into the small synagogue and, ac- bi Akiva's survived," Rabbi Berg- cording to Rabbi Bergstein, called stein says. "They became the out to the ancient Rabbi bar teachers of the Mishnah," the.oral Yochai: "'I brought him to you law. alive; I want him back alive.' As This 49-day period is a time of soon as she said those words, the semi-mourning, when no wed- child cried. He had been dead for dings can occur. Different opin- six hours. The British doctors who ions exist as to the times Jews are examined the child said it was no prohibited from having marriages performed, Rabbi Bergstein says. less than a miracle." There have also been stories 'The custom in Detroit [for Lubav- itch] is, we do it until the new of sightings of Rabbi bar Yochai moon ofIyar, and then we allow at the site, "mingling" with the people, Rabbi Bergstein says. ❑ weddings during the three days WZPS PHOTO BY YASHA MAZU R A savings account that brings out the animal in you. That's a first. Time To Celebrate F First ofAmerica Connections® Savings rewards you - and even pays you more for being a loyal customer. This account is proof that we go a little further for our customers. First of America Connections Savings gives you high rate savings when you have at least one other account with us. 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