wants to study law and business. "I tried to talk him out of high school and college," Ms. Baum says. "But to no avail." Where the two do agree is the centrality of Judaism in their lives. Josh is the only Jewish /- student at his school who takes offal] the Jewish holidays. The family attends Shabbat services every week at the local Chabad House. And Anna Flora has a Hebrew tutor — right there at the laundromat. Ms. Baum says she spends a great deal of time speaking with children, who invariably offer the same comment to Anna Flo- ra when they learn she doesn't attend school: "You're so lucky." "The way children come out of school is like factory rejects," she says. "They're damaged mentally and morally, and a lot of times the only job they're fit for is flipping burgers." hat Claire Kander wants you to see most of all is the don- key head. "You've got to see it, you've just got to." She is like a little bird, jump- ing and down with delight at the mere thought of the giant head (normally found at a cos- \-- tume shop), to be used in the ( family's performance ofA Mid- summer Night's Dream. Dutifully, brother Jacob dons the donkey head. Aside from the fact that it's difficult to see out of the thing, the donkey head is nothing less than wonderful. Immense, clean and brown, it seems to / 7 have a friendly look. "You see!" Claire cries, her point proven. Beth has many lines in the play and a solo, to boot. Yes, this Kander version ofA Midsum- mer Night's Dream includes some songs, '50s style. Beth's number is a takeoff of "Summer Lovin'," sung so sincerely by Olivia Newton-John and John Travolta in Grease. "I sing, 'Oh, those midsum- mer nights,"" Beth explains. The family chorus behind will add, in Brooklyn accents, "tell us mohr (more), tell us mohr." 'We're all such hams," broth- er Adam, 11, says as Beth com- pletes her song. /- "Kosher hams," Beth inter- jects. In addition to appearing on stage, the Kander children are active in 4-H. Some take danc- ing and piano and participate in programs at their synagogue in Flint. The eldest Kander child, and so the first to be home educat- ed, Beth started reading when she was 4, and started learning Hebrew when she was 5. Among the first subjects she was eager to master: writing script. "I wanted to learn to write cursive because I wanted to go to the library for more books, and a rule then was that when you wanted a library card you had to be able to write cursive." These days, she is consider- ing going to high school. "There are times I'll get in- secure," she says. "Everyone at school is doing geometry and it's something I've never been very good at. In fact, I hate it." But friends don't think she's odd, "they understand it [home schooling] is part of my life. "The one thing I miss is [school] dances. But I have a lot of guy friends. One of them has to ask me out eventually." She definitely wants to go on to college, though she's not sure yet what she'll study. "I'm try- ing to narrow it down," she says. "There's so much I want to do and be. I'm thinking about psychiatry, the rabbinate, the- ater ..." Beth did especially well in her Hebrew class at the syna- gogue, completing the course with honors. Brother Adam seems to be following in her footsteps. He's about to start taking the class, but he's already been teaching himself much of the course work, his mother says. "He'll likely complete the last book [required for studies] be- fore he even starts." Jacob, 13, hopes to be an artist or a mechanic one day. He loves chess and reading. He's glad he's home schooled, he says, "because I have as much time as it takes me to do something. What if I were in a math class [at public school] and finished the work in 15 minutes, then just had to sit there the rest of the time? Or what if I needed two hours to do science, but the class was only an hour long?" Claire, A Midsummer Night's Dream still clasped firmly in her hand, says, "I like reading very much and drawing and acting — duh — and I do like singing because I like my voice:" Though pleased with her children's continued educa- . tional growth, Mrs. Kander ac- knowledges that home schooling is not without its drawbacks. Because she chose to stay at home rather than work, Mrs. Kander and her husband have made financial sacrifices. And because the chil- dren are with her all day, "you do give up some private time." Extended family reaction has been mixed. Some are quite positive, a few less so. "My mother is basically supportive, but she felt challenged at first," Mrs. Kander says. "I think it's because home schooling isn't what she did." In the early years, Mrs. Kan- der encountered a few bouts of anti-Semitism; it's rare these days, though. On occasion, sup- port groups for home schoolers will open or close with a Chris- tian prayer, which leaves Mrs. Kander "uncomfortable." "I have one home-schooling friend who is a biblically based Christian," she says. "We have talked a lot about religion, and we finally agreed to disagree. I've found that if you're honest about who you are and have re- spect for others, you won't have much of a problem." ❑ So, You Want To Go To College (Or Get A Job)? How home-schooled children can get a high-school degree. U nless you're an advocate of that old adage, "The best way to teach a child to swim is throw him in the water," you should do your research before even considering a home-school education for your child. Ann Arbor is home to one of a handful of schools nationwide that offer assistance to families educating their own children. Called Clonlara, it is one of an even smaller number of schools that prefers to let the child direct his own course of studies. (There are also correspondence schools, which have set programs.) Einar Kvaran is a contact teacher at Clonlara, which was established in 1967 as a private school, grades kindergarten through high school, and expanded in 1978 to include home schooling. His main responsibility is helping students find resources they need on any given subject — Shakespeare, for example. The student is then obligated to learn on his own (which could mean anything from reading Shakespeare's plays to viewing videos to writing papers) and keep track of how much time he has spent doing so. Upon successful com- pletion, he will receive a credit. In addition to earning 22 credits, which are recognized and accepted by many universities, Mr. Kvaran says stu- dents must compile a portfolio and take an exam through Clonlara. They will then obtain a degree, similar to a high- school degree. Mr. Kvaran describes the school's re- quirements for awarding a degree as "pretty much the same as you would have in any public or private school. We cover subjects like U.S. government, his tory and math." A number of Clonlara's home-schooled "graduates" go on to advanced studies at the Massachusetts Institute of Tech- nology (MIT), the University of Michi gan and Michigan State, among others. Today, Clonlara works with about 5,000 home-schooled students around the world. Half are from Michigan. Vir- tually none are fundamentalist Christ- Jacob loves chess and ian, mr. Kvaran says. reading, Higklale College, about 45 minutes outside Jackson, has seen its number of home-schooled students jump from five to 15 to 28 in the past three years alone. Jeffrey Lantis, director of admissions at Hillsdale, believes that's due in part to Hillsdale's position as an "independent and conservative school that espouses traditional, Judeo-Christian values," (There are no co-ed dorms, for example.) Oftentimes, he says, home-schooling par- ents share the same values, including a commitment to edu cation. Because of the-increasing number of horne-schooled students, Hillsdale has formulated an admissions policy that takes their GOING TO COLLEGE page 80 h- 79