PHOTO AP/RUTH FREMSON Secretary of State Madeleine Albright talks with a reporter during an interview in her office at the State Department in Washington Monday, Feb. 3, 1997. Madeleine ecretary of State right's tragic family MICHAEL DOBBS SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH NEWS short, plump woman with closely cropped black hair and pale blue eyes sat in the front row of a news conference in the American library in Prague, staring intently at Madeleine Albright. It was 1994. The woman clutched a letter in her hand. She showed little interest in the weighty foreign policy issues being Michael Dobbs covers the State Department for the Washington Post, from which this article was excerpted. addressed by the visiting U.S. ambassador to the Unit- ed Nations. Her mind was occupied by the sorts of fleet- ing observations about health and appearance and the effects of time upon a face that relatives have about one another. "What fashionable black stockings Madlenka is wearing today," the woman thought, as discussion of the Czech Republic's transition from Communist dicta- torship to free-market democracy whirled about her. "They go well with her high heels." Dagmar Simova searched Ms. Albright's face for a sign of recognition. Any sign of recognition. They were first cousins. They had lived in the same household decades ago, as children in exile from a world at war. As adults they had lost touch, divided by the Iron Curtain, although they had met up once briefly in Prague, after the fall of the Berlin Wall. Even after that reunion, however, a dis- tance persisted in their relationship. When Ms. Simo- va had heard that Ms. Albright would be in Prague again, she had decided to seek her out in person. Occasionally during the news conference, the P:thassador would glance