HIDDEN HANGOUTS page 50 Delia's Restaurant: Ferndale breakfast spot. W. Nine Mile), Bangkok Cafe (323 W. Nine Mile) or the Om Cafe (Woodward, south of 9 1/2). Marigolds is earthy, with organic food and acoustic mellow music in the back, organic products like hemp clothing in the front. Occasional live mu- sic dinners. The Om, which is open at the owners' whim, offers macrobiotic fare — no processed foods — and an ambiance reminiscent of a campus hangout. Bangkok Cafe is the opposite — kind of divey, decorated with Christmas tinsel and Far East accessories, but great, cheap Thai food. Minimalist service, but when you leave, someone always yells out: "Come again!" For night dining, Xhedo's, Rialto (a kitschy, 1950s experience, according to The Jewish News' Julie Edgar), Maria's and Como's are reputed to be tops. Come spring, Como's spills outside onto a cov- ered patio. Italian cuisine, smoky inside plus live entertainment on weekends. • >0401 1MIN V,...,:aa,„ With plans to rewrite the city's master plan, there could well be even more to do in Ferndale. Brazil: Conversation, .coffee and art deco decor. Comet Burgers: A late-night greasy spoon, ?'• Aetheria: A down-to- earth boutique with great finds. 52 Maria's, which moved into Ferndale (on Nine Mile, west of Woodward) from its longtime location on Grand River in Rosedale Park, offers traditional (read: heavy) Italian fare like eggplant Parmi- giana and spaghetti with meatsauce, and its very own, surprisingly robust, wines, says Ms. Edgar. Don't forget reservations on the weekend. Also check out Lavender Moon Cafe (205 W. Nine Mile), A Woman's Preroga- tive book store (175 W. Nine Mile), Aethe- ria (23140 N. Woodward) and the Magic Bag theater (22920 Woodward). Touted by some as a lesbian hangout, two-year-old Lavender Moon is a safe place for gay and straight alike to drink coffee, beat drums and schmooze. You'll find a diversity of programs and people, plus personable owners, Jewish couple Robert Levine and Elizabeth Davis. Aetheria smells like incense and can- dles, with the aura of an earthy bridal shower. Fun place to go gift-hunting — for women (sorry guys). The Magic Bag building has stood watch on the east side of Woodward since the 1920s. Described by 25-year-old Jew- ish owner Jeremy Haberman as "casual, moderately elegant and hip," the Magic Bag hosts blues, rock, jazz and reggae acts as well as top local bands such as the Howling Diablos and Botfly. Doors open at 8 p.m. six nights a week, with live music on the weekends and movies during the week. Wednesday night "Brew and View" makes it one of the most popular nights in the neighbor- hood. Upcoming shows include the Yel- lowjackets on April 5, Mose Allison on April 11 and G.E. Smith with the Satur- day Night Live Band on April 19. Ferndale is "a real changing commu- nity," says Martha Sempliner, owner of the Library Bookstore on Nine Mile since 1978. "There's still a big attempt here to make it a community." With plans to rewrite the city's master plan, there could well be even more to do in Ferndale in coming months. oyal Oak is old hat for many De- troiters who make it a habit to go out. But a few places deserve spe- cial mention. OK, so snow was blowing in every di- rection, and it really wasn'tthe best night to go out. That may be why the Royal Oak Brewery (215 E. Fourth St.) was hardly full on a weekend night a few weeks ago. But it's not because of a lack of quality. Big, spacious, well-ventilated with a sports bar feel (although some Jewish News expert socializers say the TVs are too small). Five immense silver vats of homemade beer hold a variety of tanta- lizing flavors, which change by the month. With almost 50 recipes, Wayne, the well-trained brewmeister, rotates flavors constantly — Northern Light (tastes like fraternity beer), Irish Red (luscious, Kil- lian-esque, says Randy Cohn), Porter ("easy drinking, mild, pleasant taste" — Matt Rosen), Bear Cider ("interesting, fruity" — Mindy Kolender) and dark Oat- meal Stout. In winter, it's a pretty white-bread crowd, but the brewery may well be the up-and-coming laid-back place to be, away from the congestion of Main Street and Washington. Word has it that summers pack 'em in, with live music. They are in the process of turning the attached alley into a beer garden, to open this summer. Mr. B's (219 S. Main) — standard tasty bar fare, big, lots of room to sit and watch games. Twentysomethings abound. Mr. B's makes its own beers, which sell in some local stores. Bar-goer sources say this is a good casual place to hang out and watch the game. Any game. With beer. R&J Coffee Shop — a can't-miss. Orig- inally named "Salisbury's," James Par- ton and Richard Sevier (hence, R&J) bought it in 1952. It's been in Parton's family solely since 1969 (sons Dave and Mark bought it from Dad in 1985). This is the place for desserts, any time, and after-bar inebriatedly-influenced feasts. Waitress Jennifer cooks up a "Jen- na da Whip" milkshake upon request and quickly quips to drunker patrons: "Sit down, shut up and order." With her charm, you can't be offended. The kitchen closes at 4 a.m. weekends, but they don't start "booting people out until 4:30." Comet Burgers is cute, kitschy, loud. A perfect late-night greasy spoon, but don't expect too much class. Sanders hot fudge sundaes a plus, waitress' tight busty shirts a minus. Record album cov- ers adorn the walls, with bright, fun flow- ered wallpaper and a hilarious sign on the front door admits that nothing fat- free dwells here. Memphis Smoke — Not just talking about the barbecue — it's very smoky, ac- cording to Jewish News photographer Daniel Lippitt. Great R&B live music, peo- ple up dancing, groups of friends and sin- gles, a real mix, ages 21-51, easily. The hearsay is that it's a good after- work place, and the canvas-enclosed mushroom-like tables on the roof are open and hopping summer nights. The menu is heavy on pork, so it's clearly not a par- ticularly Jewish spot — but the live mu- sic is supposedly smashing. Brazil (305 S. Main): Good food, smoky, not-so-clean couches, lots of laid-back style. Great lighting and art deco decor. Try the hummus and veggie sandwiches. ❑ R