S LYNNE MEREDITH COHN STAFF WRITER PHOTOS BY DANIEL LIPPITT Right: Memphis Smoke: Smoky atmosphere but great music and dancing. Bottom: The R&J Coffee Shop: Royal Oak's top spot for atmosphere, chow and personality. C/) Lu (JD LU CC F- LU C.) LU 50 The best undiscovered places to hang out off Woodward in Ferndale and Royal Oak. almost tripped over the R&J Coffee Shop on my way across the Fourth Street railroad tracks in Royal Oak, headed somewhere else. I think that's how most people find it. The decor is decidedly 1950s, the food is basic diner. But the mood (and the milkshakes) give this 52-year-old joint its character. And that's what going out in metro Detroit is all about. If you go strictly by appearance, the gray six-or-so mile stretch of Woodward Avenue encompassing Royal Oak and Ferndale probably won't entice you to a night on the town. But you'll be missing out big time. Like hidden caves in the wilder- ness, the coffee shops, bars, restau- rants and stores of these northern Detroit suburbs offer doorways to dif- ferent worlds. While Royal Oak has emerged in recent years to the trendy main- stream of Detroit night life, Ferndale remains cloaked by the shady stig- ma of some near-Woodward neigh- borhoods. (In a way, that's lucky for Ferndale merchants, as the low pro- file has kept rents affordable.) Carved out roughly around Wood- ward and Nine Mile, Ferndale is the last best secret of suburban social life. The places are unique and political- ly correct — a throwback to the '60s perhaps, with a '90s awareness. Food: First stop, Delia's, which opens its doors at 6 a.m. (On the east side of Woodward, just south of 9 1/2 Mile.) Upscale menu, down-to-earth ac- coutrements. High-maintenance eaters relax — you can have it the way you want it. French toast, no- cholesterol egg white omelettes and vegetarian breakfast sausage ride shotgun to greasier food. Try Delia's superb homemade raisin toast. For lunch, either Marigolds (214 HIDDEN HANGOUTS page 52