Reporter's Notebook Why Do We Seem Reluctant To Learn? A Comfort Level You Don't Find Here RABBI AMY B. BRODSKY SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH NEWS LYNNE MEREDITH COHN STAFF WRITER During the past weeks I have been privileged to participate in two interfaith pro- grams. One was the 27th annual In- terfaith Day in East Lansing. This year's host was East Lans- ing's Congregation Shaarey Zedek. The topic was the Book of Psalms, and there were four speakers representing Protes- tantism, Greek Orthodoxy, Ro- man Catholicism and Judaism. Approximately 250 people from the East Lansing area attended the daylong program. The second program was an interfaith prayer service held on the campus of Wayne State Uni- versity. It was ti- tled "Muslims, Jews, and Chris- tians: Prayers for Peace"; the reli- gious representa- tives spoke about unity. Approxi- mately 40 people attended this short prayer ser- vice. I was honored to have been asked to repre- \_ sent the Jewish people at both programs. Both were wonderful learning experiences for me. I was told that the program in East Lansing allowed only a certain number of people from each of the four religious groups to partici- pate. This ensured that there was a diverse group for the day's pro- gram. /— At lunch that day, participants were assigned to tables random- ly so that we could converse with people from different religious backgrounds. The service held at Wayne State was equally wonderful. The program was well-planned and well-advertised on campus and in the general community. I was disappointed, however, by the re- /- sponse of our community. As far as I could tell, there were only two Jews at the service: a represen- tative from Metro Detroit Hillel and me! I'm sorry to say that in my ex- perience over the past few years, the Jewish response at Wayne State last week was the more typ- ical response of our community. Amy Brodsky is assistant director of the Ecumenical Institute for Jewish-Christian Studies in Southfield. Since returning to Detroit five years ago, I have been privileged to speak at a number of church- es. Last summer, I became the as- sistant director of the Ecumenical Institute for Jewish-Christian Studies. In this new role I have done a great deal of preaching and teaching at local churches, far more than I was able to do in my previous years as a congre- gational rabbi. One thing that I have learned from all of this formal contact with the members of these churches is that they are eager to learn about Judaism, to visit our synagogues, to participate in model sedarim and so on. The people with whom I have Christians, on the other hand, want to learn about Judaism since Jesus, of course, was a Jew. Learning about Judaism is a nat- ural for them. Many Christians want to learn not only about the Judaism which Jesus practiced, but also about Judaism today. We do, however, live in a coun- try in which the majority of peo- ple are Christian. Christian references abound. Our secular and school calendars revolve around Christian holidays. We see Christianity on television and at the movies. One would think that since we see so much of it, we would want to know more about it, that we would want to learn about Chris- tian customs and beliefs. Just be- cause we live in a majority-Christ- ian culture doesn't mean that we re- ally know about and understand our - Christian neighbors. Why am I in- volved in inter- faith work? Space does not permit me to preach the sermon about tikkun olam, come in contact are thrilled to have the opportunity to learn about Judaism. I have developed a six-hour course, "Judaism: A Visitor's Guide," which I have been taking to local churches. Six hours is a longtime commitment for most of us these days, but the members of these churches come back week after week to learn more. At one church, there was a retreat pre- viously planned that coincided with one of the sessions of my course. So that they wouldn't miss any of the material I covered, the retreat participants had the ses- sion videotaped to view upon their return! Christians are excited to learn about Judaism, but I haven't seen the same enthusiasm on our part. Why aren't we interested in learn- ing about Christianity? Why aren't we touring local churches and participating in interfaith programs? Granted, Judaism is not de- pendent upon Christianity in the same way that Christianity is de- pendent upon Judaism. We do not need to learn about Chris- tianity in order to understand the history of our people. about how one of the ways to repair the world is to en- gage in dialogue and study with those who come from different backgrounds. But that is one reason why I choose to participate in this type of work. The other reason is purely self- ish. Every time I speak to a Chris- tian group, I learn more about Christian beliefs and practices. And as I learn more about them, I learn more about me. When Christians ask me about various Jewish beliefs and cus- toms, I am forced to further ex- amine my Judaism. I have to go back to our texts and restudy our traditions. As a Reform Jew, I have to learn more about the other branches-of Judaism so that I may fairly and knowledgeably an- swer questions about them. This examination of the other move- ments within Judaism gives me a better appreciation and respect for them. Yes, involvement in interfaith activities does help us to repair the world, to make it a better place in which to live. It is im- portant for our community to be • involved in such experiences. In- terfaith activities help us to learn more about ourselves, to become more knowledgeable and com- mitted Jews. 0 I was not scared in Israel recent- ly, despite po- tential danger following Prime Minister Binyamin Ne- tanyahu's de- cree to build housing for Jews in eastern Jerusalem. Just cautious. Every day, a young soldier would convey the breaking news to those of us volunteering on an army base outside Safed. The first mention of the words Har Homa came one day, noncha- lantly. The soldier said Mr. Ne- tanyahu had decided to build 5,000 residential units in a neighborhood in the largely Arab eastern section of Jerusalem. He also would build 3,000 units for Arabs. And then, ever so calmly, she told us to be careful, "aware," while we were in Tel Aviv or Jerusalem on our weekend off. Do not fall asleep on city busses, she said. Be aware of your surroundings. Spending that weekend in Jerusalem, I de- cided to take taxis, or walk, around the city if need be. These are decisions we should not have to make. While I was there, we were told Palestinian leader Yassir Arafat had flown to the United States, beseeching President Bill Clinton's intervention in the Har Homa "crisis." Arafat threatened to end the peace process and declare Palestine an independent nation if Mr. Netanyahu broke ground at Har Homa. What exactly warranted such a grave, international outcry? Look at the facts: A govern- ment decided to build dwellings in its own, undivided capital. A government refused to be swayed by international judg- ments. A government began construction, and a bomb ex- ploded in Tel Aviv. If Detroit Mayor Dennis Archer decided to build apart- ments downtown for white res- idents, people would probably say, "Go ahead." Just because the city has a largely black res- ident population doesn't mean that whites can't live there. I walked the streets of the Old City, the Jewish Quarter, on Shabbat, realizing that 35 years ago, I would not have been able to step foot there. I thought about how Jews had, for generations before 1967, struggled to return to those stone streets. I thought about the numerous, horrific persecu- tions the Jewish people have en- dured. I was told not to walk through the Arab Quarter of the Old City. although I had done so in De- cember 1995, not even a year and a half ago. I came up with no answers. Israel is a small nation, sit- uated in a precarious place. You can't move the country to a dif- ferent part of the world. And you can't pretend that all involved bring honesty to peace dealings. On the way home, I sat next to a Palestinian man on the plane. Air Canada, neutral ground. He was born in Ramal- lah and now lives in Denver. About 30 years old, married with a son and a baby on the way. A nice man. He visited relatives in Ra- mallah, which so many Ameri- can newspapers say is a part of Palestine, a nation which does not exist today. He shared with me his concern for the future of the Palestinian peo- ple. The West Bank should have re- mained part of Is- rael-proper, he said. Since the in- troduction of self-rule, Pales- tinians cannot earn a consistent wage, cannot support families or guarantee food on the table. He predicts an uprising and overthrow of Mr. Arafat and eventual take-over by Jordan. He says the Palestinians had it better as part of Israel. And then a bomb exploded at a Tel Aviv cafe. Yes, I could have been at a table, sipping cappuccino there. Still, I did not feel the least bit unsafe in Israel. When I was a teen-ager and had friends who went to Israel for the summer, they regaled me with tales of how they had nev- er felt so safe anywhere else. As I grew older and relatives or friends visited the Jewish state, they all came back saying the same thing. I couldn't under- stand it. Now I do. It is almost inex- plicable, but I feel less safe walk- ing around at night in the suburbs of Detroit, or on the campus of an American univer- sity, than walking the streets of Jerusalem or the sidewalks of Tel Aviv. A few weeks ago I walked, at night, from Jerusalem Boulevard in down- town Jaffa to a restaurant on Tel Aviv's seaside boardwalk. A 30-minute walk, along the busy car-laden main thoroughfare. Alone. Standi ng up and to king char ge. COMFORT page 30