This space contributed as a public service. "YES THERE IS LIFE AFTER BREAST CANCER. AND THAT'S THE WHOLE POINT:" —Ann Jillian left rolling green, rocky hills for Leaving the kibbutz, we could the stark sandy mounds called hear the chop-chop of helicopter Judea. What a varied terrain Is- blades cutting through the air rael has. above. Then, on the way back We toured Safed last here, jeep after jeep night after a short work The Is raeli flag passed us. The madrichot day, then six of us had think it's a response in flies on the kosher Chinese. Yum. Golan Heights. Lebanon to a terrorist at- I am at such a disad- tack on a tank today, vantage by not speaking Hebrew. which killed one soldier. The sky I feel so helpless, although in was ink black and still — per- most places someone knows Eng- fectly quiet, perhaps foreboding? lish. I think about how these soldiers Bibi [Netanyahu] said this are boys — like my brother — week he will build new dwellings nice Jewish boys, defending the for Jews in east Jerusalem and tiny piece of land they can call a lesser amount for Arabs there. home. Arafat et. al. are up in arms, In bed, we heard air force threatening the end of the peace planes taking off for the north, process because of it. Our madri- apparently to bomb Lebanon. We chot warned us to be careful on just listened, quietly. buses in the cities — I think I will take cabs. I especially like Why do all the countries in the world, throughout history, have the Mrs philosophy such a problem with Jews? We are a small people, we don't harm of "follow me." anyone, nor do we proselytize. And for all time, we have been MARCH 3, DAY NINE: the enemy. It makes no sense. Arafat is threatening to de- These Judean hills are high, tan with sand and rocks, engulf- clare Palestine an independent state if Bibi builds in Har Homa. ing. We are waiting for war. A lot of women are so afraid of breast cancer they don't want to hear about it. And that's what frightens me. Because those women won't prac- tice breast self-examination regularly. Those women, particularly those over 35, won't ask their doctor about a mammogram. Yet that's what's required for breast cancer to be detected early. When the cure rate is 90%. And when there's a MARCH 2, DAY EIGHT: Today we drove to the Golani Brigade Memorial at Golani Junction — a very moving and sobering site. Israel has so many memorials, each different, sym- bolic, moving. Israel really reveres its people. I especially like the EDFs phi- losophy of "follow me": the com- mander tells his soldiers, "Follow me," and leads by example, whereas in other countries, the commander says, "Forward!" and follows behind his unit. The Is- raeli way is like a father-son re- lationship. Went Israeli dancing tonight at a kibbutz. A blast! Israelis came from all over— Kiryat She- mona, Katzrien — to dance. They were dressed for a night out and danced each step knowingly, with a streak of self-confidence. We laughed and laughed. VANIERICAN CANCER SOCIETY® MARCH 4, DAY TEN: We stopped by a terrorist cemetery on Ramat HaGolan. The graves are numbered, no names. This is where Israel buries terrorists. Sometimes, af- ter peace negotiations, they dig up the bodies and return them to the appropriate country. This has been a great experi- ence — humbling, good for build- ing character, different. I've met some interesting people. I feel good. I can do any- thing. The world is open for dis- covery. 0 aw The program ended for vol- unteers on Thursday, March 6. Most Sar-El programs last for three weeks, with each Shabbat free, off the army base. good chance it won't involve the loss of a breast. But no matter what it involves, take it from someone who's been through it all. Life is just too wonderful to give up on. And, as I found out, you don't have to give up on any of it. Not work, not play, not even romance. Oh, there is one thing, though. You do have to give up being afraid to take care of yourself. 6 Get a checkup. Life is worth it. You're never too old to quit blowing smoke. ti rn 0) co N American Heart Association WE'RE FIGHTING FOR 'OUR LIFE 11