and king-size puppets that fill the trunk of her Jeep, she mes- merizes the preschool set with interactive stories and echo- style, singalong songs. Little ones love to make barnyard noises and don ani- mal hoods for "Down on Grandpa's Farm." They also enjoy wearing spider finger V 5328 Highland Rd. • Waterford, MI 48327 810.673.0100 • Fax 810.673-1084 $1.0 OFF GOLF TIME NOT VALID WITH ANY OTHER DISCOUNT OAKLAND YARD ATHLETICS EXPIRES 2/28/97 F EB RU AR Y Tulip, the skunk; and a chick- en/ostrich-like puppet named Zoe. She charges $50 for a 30-45- minute birthday party show designed for 2- to 6-year-olds. You haven't lived until you've seen 3-to-7-year-olds do- ing the Macarena! Using a mix of classical, rock and roll and children's music, Diane Urquhart keeps the birthday party set on Sooner or later, every Jewish family faces that ultimate of all birthd ay Par their feet with such ties, the bar or bat mitzvah. games as 'Round the And, as any parent who has masterminded such an affair knows, once Block, tic-tac-toe bean- you get started there's no end to what you can spend. bag toss, popcorn-pop- As one Huntington Woods mother, who survived her daughter's "mod- est" $17,000 bat mitzvah last year, observes: "We started saving a long time before, but it just starts adding up and up. "There's the place, the party plan ner, invitations, food, liquor, sweet table, entertainment, flowers, center pieces, artwork, videographer, pho- tographer, favors and the list goes on. "It's like a mini-wedding — you hope your kids elope after something like this." "Pink-a-ling" entertains the guests. Families seeking an alternative to an elaborate, spare-no-expense party with a band (expensive) or deejay (somewhat less expensive), might want ping parachutes, and to consider budget-friendlier sports or swim parties: rhythm sticks. * U.S. Blades Family Fun Center, West Bloomfield Township: (810) The prettiest number 476-2200 is a scarf dance done to * Ambassador Roller Skating Rink, Clawson: (810) 435-6525 Tchaikovsky's "Nut- * Skate World of Troy: (810) 6894100 cracker Suite." * Jewish Community Center: (810) 967-4030, Oak Park; (810)661- "Even the shyest 1000, West Bloomfield child will dance with a * Area health and racquet clubs, roller and ice skating rinks chiffon scarf," says Ms. -- Susan R. Pollack Urquhart, who teaches creative movement to puppets for such favorites as The couple's mix-and-match preschoolers at Oak Park's "Itsy Bitsy Spider" and rates are under $100 for one Temple Emanu-El and at the "There's a Spider on the Floor." entertainer for one hour, rang- Fieldstone School (formerly Ms. Shaw, family camp di- ing upward to $300 for the Workmen's Circle). "We actu rector at Camp Tamarack, works, both entertainers for ally work on skills, but it's so preschool teacher at Shaarey two hours. much fun they don't know Zedek and a freelance puppet Helayne Shaw is one of they're doing things that are lady at area synagogues and re- those rare entertainers willing good for them." ligious schools, writes much of to take on that toughest of all Rates start at $50 for a 30- her own material for Ratso, audiences, toddlers. Drawing 45-minute birthday party. the rat; Bearnadette Bear; upon six big bags of songbooks CHILD'S EYES page C36 fee) with his specialty, balloon sculpting. Last year alone, he used 82,000 balloons to create 350 different objects, including air- planes, giant flowers, Daffy Duck, Pluto, the genie from Al- addin and other Disney charac- ters. The kids, he says, get a real bang out of it. C35