PHOTO BY DANI EL LIPPITr celebrate! M ost successful hosts are naturals. They just have that certain "something" that com- bines a festive atmosphere, good food and inviting spirit to make guests feel comfy yet special. Miriam and Isaac Barr are just such hosts. When the Barrs moved to their Bloomfield Township home from Israel in 1971, they hit the entertaining ground running. "I've always loved to cook and have friends over," says Miriam. "I don't thing — different foods, different china, know if I do such a good job, but no everything," she says. one has complained." The Barr house is always brightly lit But if reputation means anything, Miri- am Barr is the consummate hostess. Mi riam Barr when she entertains. "My dining room is flooded with light — I've sets an "I do all my own cooking, my own flowers and the decoration. I love to ele gant table. seen enough darkness in my life." Ms. Barr specializes in the sit-down set a beautiful table," she says. dinner. "I prefer the ceremony of a long It helps that the Barr home is a virtual table. I like to set a nice table ... with nice museum with every square inch of wall dishes, candles, all my fancy stuff. And I hung with paintings and tapestries and find that sitting at a table makes for better, each table surface and cupboard over- warmer, conversation." flowing with crystal, silver, ceramic and When it comes to food, Ms. Barr bor- porcelain. rows from her own eating experiences. But Miriam Barr is modest "I'm a "I cook some foods in an Israeli style and great improviser. I mix and match every- copy other things that I see at parties and restaurants. I never know exactly where I saw them and they become my own recipes. "And I love salads. I usually start my meal with three salads, serve a fish and chicken and end with desserts and, al- ways, fresh fruit" Ms. Barr is careful about menus, espe- —7 cially with fatty foods. But she is a firm believer that you shouldn't be over-cau- , tious when going out because "a good ca meal is more than water and spices. The "- most important thing is tam (taste)." ❑ c33 ti C7)