Trying Hard Not To Forget A German adolescent ends a year-and-a-half stay with Detroit's Jewish and survivor communities. LYNNE MEREDITH COHN STAFF WRITER F alk Daviter cannot remem- tary service. Those who "consci- ber exactly when he first entiously object" can instead do learned of the Holocaust, civil service, providing they write but books about the Shoah an essay explaining why they have lined the shelves of his opted out of the military. childhood home since he was a "To obey orders because you're little boy. part of a system seems awkward It may not sound like an un- to me," says Mr. Daviter. About usual situation for America, but half of young German men opt Mr. Daviter, who is not Jewish, for civil service, says Mr. Daviter. grew up in Hamburg, Germany. - While the Holocaust is "quite Now 21, Mr. Daviter is prepar- a big topic" in German high ing to bid goodbye to the United schools, Mr. Daviter laments that States, after spending about a the Shoah is taught mostly from year and a half working at the a factual perspective, without Holocaust Memorial Center in emotion. With extensive volun- West Bloomfield. teer Holocaust-related work and This is a young man who chose education under his belt, he to live with Jewish families, in wanted to feel the event, know a country foreign to him, to tru- the people who had been affect- ly learn about the anguish of the ed. Holocaust and the beauty of the "What is missing [in German E Jewish tradition. Holocaust education] is the oral After high school, German history part," says Mr. Daviter. boys are required to fulfill mili- The number "6 million" is a fig- tire few can grasp, he says. "What midwestern United States to per- you need, especially two genera- form. That visit prompted Mr. tions after, is something you can Daviter to seek a civil service post connect to that." Namely, sur- in the States. vivors. His Holocaust options: De- It is unusual for a young troit's Holocaust Memorial German to do civil service abroad, Center, the U.S. Holocaust as only about 100 German young- Memorial Museum in Washing- sters leave Germany for their civ- ton, D.C., and the Simon Wiesen- il service every year. thal Center in Los Angeles. Mr. Daviter spent most of his Detroit's is "the only museum youth playing clarinet and piano in America that has Holocaust in symphonies and orchestras, survivors speaking to every group including one that traveled to the ... an experience you don't have Falk Daviter: German Holocaust education lacks oral history. in Germany, he says . Mr. Daviter ,:pent most ofb work time in the 1•INICslibre,.. handling Germanianguagedoc.. uments and books. He akocom. piled the HNIC's database,m make available to the publicsm formation about letters sentbe. tween Nazi officials, whichtlii HMC has on microfiche. During his stay, Mr. Darner also wanted to experience J5 daism, by residing, with host fam. ilies in Detroit's Jewish community. "P'ople in Ger. manv still think if Jews as victims of the Holocaust - !there isl little tort. late to in tennsof tive Jewish life. "One of the vs amazing partsofmy stay - in Michigz says Mr. Duller, has been observir: Shabhat andJewis': holidays, going ti synagogue and get. tiny to know Amer, can Jews. "You don't reaft get to see much Jewish life in Ger• many, even if its right around them. ner. It doesn t have ' THE BEST KEPT SECRET IN MICHIGAN Announcing A Grand Celebration for Doll & Bear Lovers Experience the luxury of owning a Kohler 3.5 gal. toilet These superior flushing toilets are available in select areas only, in this case, two short blocks from the tunnel exit in dom. town Windsor. The best part for you, the discriminating shop. per, is that your U.S. dollar is worth much more in Windsor. We have 1 and 2 piece toilets in a variety of colors in stock for you to take home today. Step into the World of Beautiful Dolls & Loveable Bears 4 Save 10-40% and On A Nice Selection...100's of Items • Madame Alexander HOT OFF THE PRESS 1997 Discontinued Doll List • Lee Middleton • Johannes Zook • Annette Himstedt • Sabine Esche • Kathe Kruse •COLLECTIBLE• AFFORDABLE • LIFELIKE FOR "KIDS" OF ALL AGES • Royal • Heidi Ott • Gotz • Corolle • Ginny • Lawton • Pauline • Effanbee BEARS & ANIMALS • Steiff • Raikes • Gund • Vanderbears • Merrythought • VIB • Canterbury COMING SOON FROM MADAME AMANDER unarm Live t,r 1-,,)ure) Alice in Wonderland (expanded series) NOW, AREN'T YOU GLAD WE SHARED THE SECRET? Chinese New Year • Three Little Pigs Cake Top Brid e & Groom lust in Time For Valentine's Day! Extf"ded Thru 2. 15:9.7 ) THE DOLL HOSPITAL THE BOLD LOOK OF KOHLER@ Mommy Me Series • Gone W/The Wind WINDSOR, ONTARIO si5- .1 fie 747 FAX: 519-256-166 5 & Toy SOLDIER SHOP 3947 W. 12 Mile Rd. • Berkley • eu6 Exit Greenfield, N. to 12 P, IL E. of Greenfielj :i; VETERAN PLU\IBING & SUPPLIES 276 WYANDOTII; t 1"11111 (a)iN i , 1::1 5s@1:1)- 111 2 115 GOY EAU • - Radio Bow.. Sill Aliertnick VETERAN PLUMBING