Day Trippers Day camps allow children to have a camp experience and still come home to the nest. LYNNE KONSTANTIN SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH NEWS T o day camp or to sleep camp: This is the question that many parents begin grappling with about this time of year. Besides the age and emo- tional readthess factors, par- ents must decide what kind of camp experience they want for their child. Day camp be- comes appealing to the parent — even to the older child — for reasons ranging from keep- ing the child close to home, to finances. Helaine Rodin-Keller of Birmingham is mother to Lucy, 6, and Jake, 9 1/2. "Lucy's just getting used to sleeping through the night in her own bed in her own house," Ms. Rodin-Keller laughs. "She's got some time before we start thinking about her going away to camp." Although Jake is at an age which would be appropriate to send to sleep-away camp — as some of his friends do — Ms. Rodin-Keller doesn't think he'll go this year. "We're think- ing about possibly trying a week [away] at Tamarack, just to try it. But he's really never had the desire to go — he's never had the interest and I don't believe in pushing it." Because Ms. Rodin-Keller owns a business — she is co- owner of Fitnesse Exercise Co. — she is able to make time to spend with her children in the summer. "[My husband] works during the day, but being a personal trainer, I have the ability to train in the morning [while they're at day camp] and then we get to do stuff in the afternoon." In addition, she says, she just enjoys having her children usie Pappas is a camp adviser for Student Camp and Trip Advisors Inc. (SCATA) in West Bloomfield. Ms. Pap pas' job is to assist parents in finding the camp situation which best suits the goals and personality of their camper. Ms. Pappas offers these tips to en- sure a successful camp experience: * Speak directly to the director of the camp. This will allow you to get a around. "They're so young. Plus, I wouldn't want them to go if they didn't want to, and then have a bad sum- mer and never want to go again." In introducing a child to the camp experience, a par- ent may opt for a special- ized camp — such as a sport, music or drama camp — or one with Jewish over tones, or one that is simply a step up from day care, which may ease the child in more gently. Kindercare provides child care for ages 6 weeks to 12 years, and has 18 locations within metro Detroit, says Lisa Clayton, program director/as- sistant at the Southfield loca- tion. "A lot of our children have been with us since infan- cy, so when summer comes, they will return because it's fa- good feeling of the camp's philosophy and the way the camp is run. "Feel free to ask anything; there are pid questions," she says. * What is your child interested in doing? How does he want to spend his summer, and what do you want your child to accomplish? Asking yourself these basic questions will provide an outline, or at least eliminate certain possibilities. * Talk to parents whose children miliar and the parents know what to expect. But many are newcomers, too." Kindercare's summer camp has themes that change every two weeks, including special shows, projects or hobbies the children choose, such as sports, science and nature. Un- like many local day camps, Kindercare does not offer fi- nancial aid or scholarships but, says Ms. Clayton, the state of Michigan provides financial have gone to camps you are consider- ing. Of course, different children have different experiences -- take the re- sponses with a grain of salt — but you will get a better idea of how the camp handles certain situations or certain children. * Does the camp provide transporta- tion, and how long will your child be on the bus? * How big is each goup, how many children per counselor? Campers enjoy the JCC pool. aid for the camp, based on need. Many area public schools of- fer day camps as well. Lisa and Gary Berman of Farmington Hills have found a variety of good day camp choices. Reva, 8 1/2, and Hannah, almost 6, have both been to West Bloomfield's Doherty day camp, and last summer, Reva went to Super Summer, DAY page 128 ci k‘ * Are diet° schooVcollege student or trained/li- censed? * Will the chi 01.1 a pool or 1 * How long has the camp been Ir business? * Does the camp supply lunch? If not, is there a place to refrigerate a lunch brought by a camper? 1