promise of bringing her famous kugel to Shabbos dinner, Sarah concedes to having the family meet him and calls an escort ser- vice — fast. Enter Bob Schroeder, a non- Jewish actor with a deceivingly Jewish name. With no time left to get a new stand-in Jewish ac- tor/beau, Sarah and Bob try to pull off the charade for Miriam, Abe and psychologist brother Joel. Their hilarious shtick takes them through one Shabbos din- ner, a seder and more. Now, James Sherman's older brother is a therapist. And his sister was once a kindergarten teacher. Hmmm. Could mom and dad Sherman actually be Miriam and Abe Goldman? "Miriam and Abe are intend- ed to typify all parents every- where," says Sherman. "And that's really been the most grat- ifying thing about the response [to Beau Jest and Jest a Second]. They do seem to cross all cul- tural and ethnic and religious lines. "[My parents are pretty tra- ditional]. I think they were hap- py to see me get married. Period," adds Sherman, who's married to Linnea Todd, a non- Jewish actress who originated the role of Sarah and is repris- ing it six years later in Meadow Brook Theatre's production. "Family is big in my family, and the idea of settling down, having a family, is very impor- tant," he says. "I was 38 when I got married [four years ago], and had been working on my career and running around a lot. My mother was once interviewed by somebody in Chicago and the woman asked her, 'Do you want Jim to marry somebody Jewish?' And my mother said, 'I just want Jim to marry somebody' — which is a line in my newest play. So, actually, I guess that sometimes I do get material from my parents." Beau Jest has been the most successful show at the Victory Gardens Theater to date, run- ning for almost a year. It subse- quently ran off-Broadway for 2 1/2 years and has played in Germany, Turkey, Mexico, Ar- gentina, Canada, Brazil and Australia. Sherman's comedy sequel, To Act Or Not To Act W hen Henrietta Her- melin-Weinberg first auditioned for the role of Miriam Goldman, the Jewish mother, in Beau Jest and Jest a Second, she had no idea that one of the performances would fall on Yom Kippur. A show portraying Jewish characters, including a Shab- bos scene and seder scene, playing on Kol Nidre night? "As a rule, we play over Easter, we play Good Friday and we're open on Christmas," says Meadow Brook Artistic Director and Beau Jest Direc- tor Geoffrey Sherman. "So I thought it was as valid to play through the Jewish equivalent as it was to play through these major holidays on the Chris- tian calendar." "For me personally, observ- ing Yom Kippur was more im- portant than anything else," says Hermelin-Weinberg, who was raised a practicing Con- servative at Congregation Shaarey Zedek and keeps a kosher home. "I was ready to say 'Thank you very much. I can't be in the play.' " "I've only come across [a conflict] once before in my 25- year career, which was in New York City with a stage man- ager who felt he couldn't work that day," recalls Geoffrey Sherman (no relation to James Sherman, the play- wright). "This is the first time an actor, of any persuasion, has said that for a religious reason he or she could not work a performance. I think it's her absolute right to do whatever she wants to do, and I could have chosen not to cast her because it's an enormous hassle to find somebody to do that one performance. But I felt that she was worth it." On Sunday, Sept. 22, Her- melin-Weinberg will attend the 10 a.m. unveiling for her father, Irving Hermelin, and the 11 a.m. unveiling for her mother, Florence Shiffman Hermelin. She'll then go to Meadow Brook for the 2 p.m. matinee. The 6 p.m. show will be performed by Hermelin- Weinberg's understudy, Jan Salisbury. "It never occurred to me that the theater would be so accommodating," says Her- melin-Weinberg about the same role she understudied when Beau Jest played at the Birmingham Theatre. "They were wonderful. They said they would work it out. I was overwhelmed." ❑ Jest a Second, is slated to open at the Jewish Repertory in New York in the spring and the Co- conut Grove Playhouse in Mia- mi in March. "[Community theaters have even put on] productions of it in places where one does not think that you're going to find a Jew- ish audience — Montana, Utah and Texas. I think I lucked out. Robert Grossman plays Abe Goldman, the grumpy, but lovable, Jewish father. Henrietta Hermelin-Weinberg is Miriam Goldman, the Jewish mother, a role she's perfected in real- life with her five children. I connected with something that people respond to. "The play's about parents and children. [It works] whether the actors are Jewish or not — peo- ple often think that Linnea is Jewish and then, of course, there were times when I played Bob (Schroeder)," says Sherman, who pursued an acting career for 10 years in New York before tran- sitioning full time into play- wrighting. "So you can have a Jewish actor playing somebody who's not Jewish who's pre- tending to be Jewish," he says. Although Beau Jest has run at the Jewish Ensemble Theatre (spring 1994) and the Birming- ham Theatre, this is the first time that any theater has pro- duced both of Sherman's shows back-to-back. Jest a Second picks up where Beau Jest leaves off. By now, Sarah and Bob, who's converted and keeps kosher, have entered wedded bliss, are pregnant and planning the bris. Guess who's coming to Shabbos dinner this time? Brother Joel's beau. How do you tell your parents you're gay? Buy a ticket to the shows and find out. ❑