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March 15, 1996 - Image 69

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The Detroit Jewish News, 1996-03-15

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How should parents respond? writing a letter to a newspaper,
attending a community rally,
Young children cannot under-
stand the complex historical, eco- speaking to your child's school
nomic, sociological, and religious administration or his class.
* To counter the image of the
reasons for hatred of the Jews.
The most important things par- Jew as victim, point out histori-
ents can do, according to Rabbi cal and contemporary examples
Rosman, are to help their chil- of Jewish strength and triumph
dren "feel safe and secure ... and over adversity and oppression.
* Turn to local community re-
to maintain their children's self-
respect and their respect for oth- sources for help: rabbis, Hebrew
and day school teachers, the Jew-
er people."
Here are some guidelines for ish Community Council, Jewish
helping a child deal with an anti- Family Service, and the Resource
Center at the Agency for Jewish
Semitic incident:
* Don't over-react or react for Education, where staff can help
you select age-appropriate books
your child.
* Ask questions to clarify what and tapes.
The hamantashen we eat on
happened.
* Find out how your child feels Purim can become a vehicle for
about what took place, and what putting anti-Semitism in per-
he thinks about why it happened. spective for children. These pas-
* Reassure your child. Make tries are filled with meaning as
well as with prunes or poppy
her feel protected.
* Affirm your child's self- seeds. In a hamantash, the evil
Haman (and all his subsequent
worth.
* Keep communication open. embodiments) co-exist with the
Your child may need to work playfulness of Purim and the joy
through the experience by dis- of our people's survival.
Young children think con-
cussing it again.
* Emphasize the positives. cretely. Through their senses,
Painful situations in life can help they can grasp the significance
us grow. Ask, "Would you do of the many other Jewish sym-
something differently next time?" bols that contain contradictory
* Many anti-Semitic remarks elements, reflecting the com-
and acts are based on myths, plexity of life. The gaiety of
stereotypes, and lack of accurate Purim is preceded by the sobri-
information or understanding. Is ety of the Fast of Esther. The

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there an opportunity Graffiti s prayed charoset eaten at the
here for educating a on the in tenor of Passover seder reminds
us of the harshness of
a temp le by
teacher or a playmate?
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vand als.
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* As early as pre-school, begin happiness is not unadulterated.
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