Here are 2 reasons why party guests prefer our instant photos... to do is plan a budget and to allow yourself to go either 20 percent higher or lower," he says. "Don't go into debt for a wedding." Referrals are always important, but especially when looking for a photographer, says Ron Lieber- man, whose West Bloomfield stu- dio shoots 300 parties a year. He suggests looking at previous par- ties the photographer has shot and noticing whether the people look comfortable and happy. And al- ways ask, he stresses, who will be shooting a party; sometimes it may be an assistant or associate of the photographer whose name is on the business. Good parties don't come cheap. Ms. Luria managed to keep her costs at around $10,000 for a 185- person affair, but most party plan- ners will say that's a rare feat. They'll also say that after a certain point, price really has no bearing on whether a party wins the hearts of its guests. "The fact is people can have just as much fun at a $15,000 party as they can at a $75,000 one," she says. "It's not the money or the place or us (that make the event special). "It's the people who are there." ❑ All-Important Thank Yous A written thank you from you is mandatory from the host family to recognize any gift that was re- ceived. In the case of a child, it may be helpful to prepare a sample for the child to follow while writing thank-you notes: 1.Make sure the person's name is spelled correctly. 2. Use appropriate adjectives about the gift, such as generous, terrific, beautiful, lovely, useful, and include with direct mention of gift. 3. Give options for closure: love, sincerely, thank you. ❑ (competition photos unretouched) but here's the clearest reason of all. • Polaroids • 35mm Instant Portraits • Memory Books PHOTOS' RY GILBO (810) 661-5415 Who Has It? For Bridal gifts of every variety, from the unique museum-piece to the elegantly affordable: • Stunning sterling silver: candlesticks - traditional and contemporary; wine goblets/Kiddush cups; menorahs; mezuza cases, etc. • Wedding wonders: breathtaking artistic Ketubot; dazzling Kipot and Tallit-shawls. Affordable Aic Urcfessional • Weddings • Bar/Bat Mitzvahs • Environmental Portraits • Corporate Events BRIAN A. MASSERMAN 810-569-8090 SHIRLEE BLOOM'S JEWISH CUISINE FOR YOUR NEXT OCCASION • Weddings • Graduations • Birthdays • Brises • Showers • Anniversaries • Reunions • Baby Namings • Bar and Bat Mitzvahs • All Occasion Meetings • Business Meetings • Rehearsal Dinners • Bountiful books: from exquisite coffee-table presentation volumes, to Only Kosher Products Used In The Preparation of All Food By Shirlee • Special services: Bridal registry; kipot and grace-after-meals booklets IN YOUR HOME, HALL OR OUR BEAUTIFUL standard classics. personalized; wedding-canopy rental. For the ultimate one-of-a-kind gift to the Bride & Groom Bring us the actual broken glass or bulb from the ceremony, and we'll have it suspended in a clear lucite cube for you to give the happy couple. Imagine... that magical moment when the glass is broken ... frozen in time . . . forever! Or we'll cast it as a paper weight or mezuza. sthers JUDRICA GIFTVVORLD Complimentary gift-wrapping We ship worldwide MAYFAIR ROOM AVAILABLE FOR UP TO 75 WE DO COMPLETE CATERING INDOORS AND OUTDOORS. WE SUPPLY EVERYTHING. YOU DO NOTHING! #4 0 0 4V •Carry Out • Catering •Sitdown 01 C 11# Hours: Sun. 10:30 - 5:30; Mon., Tues. 9:30 - 6:00; Wed. 9:30 -7:00 Thus. 9:30 -8:00; Fri. 9:30 - 2:30 Closed Saturday At Sugar Tree Plaza • Just North of Maple West Bloomfield (810) 932-3377 32415 Northwestern Highway Between Middlebelt and 14 Mile Farmington Hills Master Card 855-9463 C59