PARTY page 041 , 200°° Off Candid Photographic Packages (Wedding, Bar/Bat Mitzvah, Anniversary, etc.) With purchase of both photographs and video. (New purchase only) 31543 W. 13 Mile Rd. Farmington Hills (810) 553-4a67 Setting the mood... sophisticated, vibrant. The party's waiting at Somerset Inn ...Elegant banquet facilities, adding a "touch of class" to wedding days, rehearsal dinners, showers, bar mitzvahs, birthdays, and more. Our friendly Somerset staff can provide professional assistance from photography and music to decorations and flowers. Plus much more. For intimate yet distinctive gatherings, Somerset suggests The West End ... available for private luncheons with a special menu created for special times. Come entertain...Somerset style. Please call our sales and catering office at (810) 643-2286. Monday-Friday 8 AM - 5 PM Somerset Inn 041 Somerset Inn 2601 W. Big Beaver Rd. (just east of Coolidge) Troy, Michigan for private parties. The popularity of the current show, Shear Mad- ness, has forced Ms. McAllister to put all requests for the building on hold for the next few months. The building's capacity is any- where between 140 for sit-down dining to 220 for food stations. The cost of simply getting in the door starts at $1,500 — no bar, flowers, food or decorations. The Gem hosts weddings, usu- ally a couple of thespians who ex- change vows on stage, while Mrs. Sternberg used the theater setting to present her husband with a "This Is Your Life" tribute. She sheltered the theater patio with a temperature-controlled tent and even went so far as to repaint the Gem's washrooms and lay down her own rugs. Across the street, the State The- atre can accommodate up to 2,000 people with a food-station setup, a la the annual Fash Bash. West Bloomfield party planner Dee Dee Hoffman coordinated an elaborate bat mitzvah there last year, in which she turned the en- tire grand lobby into an Arabian tent. (The theme was Walt Dis- ney's Aladdin, and even the bouncers were required to dress like genies.) The ceremony was conducted on the dance floor and the par- ty made use of the theater's huge video wall. Those lucky enough to book an open date at the State can plan on spending $3,000 as a bare minimum for rental costs. House parties fall at the oppo- site end of the scale to State The- atre galas. Again, not everyone has the luxury, i.e. square footage, of using their residence for a party. But there are ways to finagle a beautiful affair at home. "There are a lot of minuses, but truthfully it's a wonderful expe- rience" to throw a party at home, says Ms. Hoffman. "You can bring in whatever you want, and you have the freedom you don't have at a hotel." The first rule of thumb is ac- cepting that, contrary to popular belief, giving a house party will likely cost as much or more than renting space. "When you do it in a house, there's much more in- volved," says Ms. Cherkasky. "You have to hire a caterer, there's valet parking, everything down to the details of forks and knives" be- comes the host's concern. Nevertheless, "it doesn't have to be a frightening experience," adds Ms. Gorelick, "as long as you have adequate help." Gorelick's Classic Cuisine will visit the house, draw up a floor plan "to create the (traffic) flow" and then decide be- tween host and planner who's re- sponsible for what. And another thing: "Your house is bigger than it seems," says Annabel Cohen, former owner of Annabel's and Co. catering. This is especially true for casual hosts who don't mind guests wander- ing through rooms and sitting on the edge of tables and beds. If not, a back-yard party in the summer- time can make up for lack of space inside the house. Detroit might not have the beautiful downtown hotels or his- toric buildings available for rental that Chicago or New York do. But there's still a decent selection of venues for those who are willing to be creative. Ms. Cohen threw her 6-year-old a birthday party last summer in a public park. She rented a company that drove up in a covered wagon and whipped up a simple pancake meal right before the guests' eyes. It cost her $2 a person to feed 125 people. "I couldn't have done it cheaper myself," she says. Places such as Greenfield Vil- lage, Pine Knob Manor, the Cas- tle (a 1898 mansion on Detroit's PARTY page C44