Zodiac SWISS • 1 8 8 2 The ultimate sports watch for mere mortals Lewis: Menus can be less flexible (although Unique, which services Hotel Baronette in Novi, and Jan- ice Levin-Gorelick, at the Birm- ingham Temple, provide custom catering); but hotels provide their own tables, chairs and linens; and certain staffs — the Baronette and the Sheraton Oaks, Novi, for in- stance — are by now just as fa- miliar with the structure of bar/bat mitzvahs as some religious institutions. "If it's the site that's most im- portant to you," Ms. Lewis says, "then you'll probably not want to go to a hotel. Hotels are kind of square and (take extra work) to make it look nice." Hotels are also costly. For any Saturday night event, the Hotel Baronette requires a guarantee that the client will spend at least $10,000 on food and drink in its 250-person capacity ballroom. At the Ritz-Carlton in Dearborn, that figure runs anywhere from $12,000 (for slow nights in the Plaza Ballroom) to $35,000 (for high-demand dates in the Presi- dential Ballroom). Mind you, that doesn't include flowers, band, videogicapher, photographer, dec- orations and the rest. Baronette allows clients to book dates up to 18 months in advance; the Ritz recommends a year to 15- months' notice. Hotels do relieve hosts of the cost and inconvenience of trans- porting out-of-town guests to and from another location. The staffs will run the party, set up and clean up. And, as Baronette's Kathy Charnley points out, hotels by na- ture are service-oriented, i.e. they aim to please. The Ritz, for one, spends hours training its staff and recertifies employees in their spe- cialty every six months. (As for kosher meals, the Ritz will prepare a kosher party on nights when the kitchen is not busy with other parties; Baronette does not prepare kosher meals, but will special-order up to about a dozen). Restaurants, such as Cafe Corti- na in Farmington Hills, cater main- ly to smaller parties, on the luncheon scale, though this one can accommodate up to 220 in the entire building (open to pri- vate parties on Sunday nights). Adrian Tonon, who runs the restaurant with his mother Rina, says clients can choose a menu for their party from anything the kitchen normally prepares. That can range from a $20-per-person pasta to a $29-per-person veal chop. Still, party professionals in De- troit lament that the city is woe- fully short on spaces to throw large (200-plus) parties. If a host wants to use his own caterer, then the choices are almost nil — "and that hurts people who don't have the budget to meet hotel minimums," says Janice Meyer Cherkasky of Gourmet Parties in Franklin. Leslie Sternberg is not one of them. For her husband Mervyn's 60th birthday, Mrs. Sternberg wanted to pull off something big at an unusual site. She chose the Gem Theatre downtown and turned the patio and building into her own personal palace. "It was one of the most elegant parties we've ever had at the Gem," says Barb McAllister, special-events co- ordinator for the Gem and neigh- boring State theaters. Saving a date at the Gem, as Mrs. Sternberg found, can be pre- carious. The theater hosts live shows throughout the year, and depending on their success, may have no free weekends available PARTY page C42 Checklist for a great party * If your house cannot accommodate the number of guests you want, think about either staggering arrival times, or even throwing the same party two days in a row. It's cost efficient and saves you from trimming your list. * Investing in an extended homeowners insurance policy for the day of the house party might be smart. You don't want to be li- able for any injuries incurred on your property. * Read the fine print in hotel contracts. Make sure you're clear on Saturday-night minimums and cancellation policies, be it you canceling on the hotel or vice versa. * Synagogues offer convenience and preferential treatment to their members, and rental rates are excellent, but their limited resources can confine your creativity * Even if the venue doesn't allow you the freedom to hire the cater- er you want, you can hire someone to oversee preparations in the kitchen that day. * Book early. Hotels and synagogues are already filling weekend spots for years to come. * Holding parties in the slow winter months, January and Febru- ary, may mean better bargains on venues as well as other party ser- vices. 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