IIIII hen Marlene Han-
dler and her fellow
hostesses decided to
throw a Western-
themed prenuptial
party for a young
couple, renting
space at a hotel, syn-
agogue, restaurant or bar was not even a
consideration. The hostesses wanted to do
the party in-house — literally.
It helped, of course, that the local resi-
dence at their disposal had a downstairs
dance floor large enough to handle 60 two-
stepping young adults.
Even so, Ms. Handler says it wasn't the
space so much as the atmosphere that con-
vinced the hostesses to keep the festivi-
ties at home. "I think it's more personal,"
she says. "People are more comfortable."
In truth, house parties generally radiate
a certain warmth often missing from other
venues; they also pose many potential haz-
ards and inconveniences. But there are good
and bad points to any location for a party
Knowing those realities and planning ac-
cordingly is a host's best chance for choos-
ing the spot that best fits the affair.
Synagogues and temples are a natural
choice for those affiliated and even for non-
members looking for a convenient, self-con-
tained party. Not only do they offer excellent
rental prices but also preferential treatment.
A member will pay little, if anything, to rent
the space. The Birmingham Temple charges
$600 for non-members to use the entire
building for one day; members pay less than
half that.
At Temple Israel, non-members must
wait until six months before their event to
book a space, while members can save dates
years in advance (and they do, especially
for bar/bat mitzvahs).
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There's more. In the case of traditional
Jewish events, synagogue staffs know the
ropes: when the candlelighting and/or chal-
lah ceremonies will begin, what the cler-
gy's needs are, when to cue the band for
the hora, etc.
Most synagogues provide their own cater-
ing services (many, like Shir Shalom and
Temple Israel, have contracts with Matt
Prentice's Unique Corporation), linens, ta-
bles and chairs. In some cases, the caterer's
services include a limited form of party plan-
ning (at Adat Shalom, for instance, the
Rosenbergs will happily discuss colors and
decor with a client). The cost of throwing
a wedding at Tem-
ple Israel includes a
bridal attendant
and chuppah.
Large parking lots negate the need for a
valet service at most of these venues. And
in the case of weddings and bar/bat mitz-
vahs, hosts have the option of keeping
guests under one roof for the ceremony and
the celebration following.
On the other hand, synagogues may of-
fer fewer options when it comes to deco-
rations, linens and tables/chairs.
Hotels have much in common with syn-
agogues, says Troy event planner Carol
Leslie Sternberg
surprised her husband
Mervyn at the Gem.