City of Southfield • Cultural Arts Division Presents Two Exciting Day Camps Art Camp Ages 7-14 Packed! Inside the duffel bags ofhi ghly success l campers. DAVID ZEMAN STAFF WRITER Layne Schwartz: Packing for camp. H aving your name sewn into your underwear has been the embarrassing price most children pay for attending summer camp. But more troubling — to your children, at least — is a dis- turbing new trend: A ban against food-laden "care pack- ages." "If kids bring their own food, they're not eating what's being served by the camp," explained Camp Tanuga Director Sid Friedman, losing sight of the chief benefit of care packages. Alas, little else has changed over the years in the annual ritual of packing your children off for the summer. For the most part, the list of camping supplies remains frozen in time: swim- suits , gym shorts, tennis rac- quets, insect repellent ... and post cards, lots of post cards. Oh sure, some updates are in- evitable. Kids at Camps Tanu- ga and Tamarack, for instance, are told to bring the fax numbers as well as addresses of family members. And the bulky trunks of yesteryear are most definite- ly out — while multiple duffel bags are in. But as summer camp has be- come big business, the camps themselves have refined the list of clothing they recommend, making it easier than ever to en- sure your child has all the prop- er gear. Naturally, some parents go too far. "They just pack too much of everything," Mr. Friedman said. "They forget laundry is done once a week. They forget kids tend to wear the same things re- peatedly — but hopefully, not their underwear." "Less is more," agreed Ina Stevens, a longtime director at Camp Walden. Ms. Stevens and Mr. Friedman suggest children bring a 10-day supply of cloth- ing — no more. Of course, Marc Shindler, who furnishes clothing to summer camps in Michigan and Canada, takes a more liberal view on such matters. The owner of Brody's Boys & Young Men's Wear suggests a 14-day clothing supply. Mr. Shindler reminds parents that kids can fly through a stack of T-shirts and socks when the weather gets sticky. During last summer's heat wave, campers deluged his West Bloom- field Township store seeking mini-fans, including one kid who demanded a swanky $50 model. Mr. Shindler concedes that in recent years he has had to "tone down my reputation for over- selling" to campers. Still, he ini- tially balked when asked to name the most useless item kids bring to camp. "If I told you, I'd lose business," he said. Finally relenting, Mr. Shindler noted that Camp Tamarack lists a rain hat as "a must" for campers, but that his young customers confide that — to be frank — they wouldn't be caught dead in a rain hat. "If their mothers are not there to tell them to put it on, they won't put it on," Mr. Shindler said, a trace of melancholy in his voice. In recent years, the list of items that camps discourage children from bringing has mushroomed. Chief among them, electronic gadgets that directors find antithetical to traditional camping. In other words, camp directors don't want their charges studying their Game Boys as they hike through outdoor trails. While each camp has its own suggestions for what children should pack, parents should re- member a few general rules: * Think of your child's med- ical and physical needs, said Camp Sea-Gull Director Jack Schulman. Make sure all med- ication is clearly marked and up to date for the camp's infirmary. If your children wear glasses or contacts, make sure they bring a back-up pair. * As you watch your children pack expensive or high couture items, think back to the chaotic, mud-infested cabins from your own summer-camp experience. Then remove those CD players, gold bracelets and $150 dresses from their duffel bags and send them on their way. * Actually, there are valid rea- sons for banning care packages, jealous cabin mates and wild animals chief among them. Mr. Friedman said he is amazed that some parents attempt to skirt the food ban through the mail. "That's not sending a real positive message to kids — that if you don't like a rule, you sneak around it," he said. * The wisest course is to label everything with your child's full name. * It is essential that you and your child pack together, said Ms. Stevens. You are reassured that your child packed his tooth- brush and did not pack his ham- ster. And your child has the benefit of knowing which clothes are hers. * Remember the playground rule, which holds: Don't pack or send anything that will embar- rass your child in front of other campers. That means not pack- ing those adorable bunny paja- mas for your 11-year-old son. It also means not calling your child by his or her "baby name" on post cards that other children might see. ❑ Activities for beginning and advanced students include painting, drawing, mask making, ceramics, T-shirt painting and more. 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. The Burgh Art Center Civic Center Drive and Berg Road Theatre Academy Ages 7-15 Experienced professionals will give the campers training in drama, music, mime, improvisation, make-up and more. BIG SHOW each session starring the campers. 9 a.m. - 3 p.m. Southfield Centre for The Arts Southfield Road at 9 1/2 Mile Road Three 2 Week Sessions For Further Information Call (810) 354-9603 Something Wonderful Happens to a Child in Young Judaea... 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