NEW FRONTIER IN Nee WOMEN'S SURGERY 1 il , K.....,44"/........,.. ,22,....,.,..",....M..... ' ;,•). RESIDENT page 127 "I am anzazed at how good I feel already, and my fi-iends and tinnily are surprised (it how quickly I've recovered." S. K. ( S.K. had laparoscopic bladder suspension for urinary incontinence) u'as in the hospital less than 26 hours, and I needed only ibuprofen the next two days for the minor discomfint I was on my treadmill the fifth day" D.B. ( D.B. had laparoscopic hysterectomy Minimally Invasive Method Provides: • Shorter hospital stay • Reduced recovery at home • Minimal discomfort • Cost effective for uterine tumor). ":1Iy surgery (endometrial abalation and removal of uterine fibroid) was a great success! I u.as hack in the gym in 3 days! Jlnd have had no side effects! L.A. ." ( L.A. had new alternative surgery to hysterectomy) "The pain was much less than my two pre- vious surgeries and I went home the clay af- ter the operatiwz." A:L. (NT. I.. had microsurgery for endometriosis, infertility & uterine suspension) Jince 1936 Over 50 years on. continuous experience Ulyery E. Sabbagh, M.D. C. Choi, M.D. R. Rifai, M.D. W. Sabbogh, M.D. termine the extent of the dam- age and to treat it. The afternoon's final patient, an elderly man with several medical problems, had to be brought in by stretcher. Dr. Pearlstein was monitoring his tracheostomy, an incision over the trachea that allows for breathing when the lungs or mouth are damaged. "I do so many things that are so different," the doctor says. "I might remove a tumor on one patient, perform voice surgery on another and alleviate a child's hearing loss." "I'm doing what I set out to do." — Richard Pearlstein Dr. Pearlstein is one of 650 residents and fellows affiliated with Henry Ford Hospital. In all, hospitals offer medical- school graduates over 20 differ- ent types of residency programs. The shortest, three-year pro- grams, are in the fields of fam- ily practice, internal medicine and pediatrics, and the longest, a seven-year residency, is in neurosurgery. "In medical school a student learns the vocabulary, concepts I and elementary practical skills of medicine," says Dr. David C. Leach, the director of medical education at Henry Ford Hos- pital. "The real learning takes place at the patient's bedside." Dr. Leach describes a resi- dency as an apprentice program with gradually increasing re- sponsibility. It gives young doc- torsexperiential learning, under supervision, that ultimately leads to competency in caring for the sick. "A student can read in text- books about a disease, but that doesn't enable the student to rec- ognize it," Dr. Leach says. "A doc- tor needs experience that goes beyond a textbook description." Although Dr. Pearlstein is done with school, nightly read- ings of medical materials are part of his regimen. "Medicine is a self-learning process," he says. In spite of the long hours and hard work, the 29-year-old Dr. Pearlstein still finds time to par- take in his hobbies, which in- clude exercising and cooking. And, with some weekends off, he often visits his girlfriend in Cleveland. "The more you see and the more you do, the better you are," he said. "You can't put a price tag on experience, and a resi- dency is an experience." ❑ Building Self-Esteem In Children and Teens PHYLLIS MEER SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH NEWS Before face lift S After face lift • Specializing in all facial, nose & body surgery & liposuction • View hundreds of our before & after photographs •Obagi Skin Rejuvenation Program • Accredited Office Surgical Suite (AAAHC) • Doctors on staff at Straith Hospital (1CANO accredited) • Free initial consultation/brochure mall not: next seminaz After. 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Rabbi Alon Tolwin, director of Aish HaTorah says he invited Mrs. Radcliffe to speak to his group last fall to translate principles of Torah into practical advice in human re- lationships. Mrs. Radcliffe is a lec- turer and has written five books. She has a private practice of fam- ily counseling in Toronto. A person with high self-esteem will have positive traits such as be- ing kind, considerate, helpful, care- ful, organized, responsible, clean, neat, generous, thoughtful and cre- ative, Ms. Radcliffe maintains. Self-esteem also includes being able to accept one's weaknesses and imperfections and being able to improve them. Does your child feel good about him/herself? Can he or she take on a new challenge? How does your child handle dis- appointment? From a Torah perspective, everyone is created for a unique purpose in life, Ms. Radcliffe writes. Parenting is a life-long process which molds a child's per- sonality. Parents are responsible for their child's education. Some- times this is a difficult task, es- pecially when a child has personality traits that provoke us and make them harder to love. While certain essential character traits are inborn, 50 percent are formed from daily interactions be- tween parents and children, she says. The author maintains that in today's busy world, parents real- ly have to work on themselves to be pleasant and positive with their children. School-age children see their parents an hour in the morn- ing, sometimes during dinner hour and before bed. These are often stressful times for parents. Chil- dren may miss parents' best hours of the day. How can we foster our rela-