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It's also important a book can open up dialogue or for our children to see us reading, plant the seeds until the child is for we are their models. This may require some ad- ready to talk about it, says Joan Grayson Cohen, coordinator of justments in time management. Baltimore's Jewish Family Ser- If you are a late-night reader, you vices' Child Abuse and Neglect can tell your child about what you are reading. Prevention Project. The best way to convey en- Ms. Cohen created a coloring book for children with notes for thusiasm for literature and the parents called Playing It Safe learning that comes from it is to With Your Child: Eli and Ellie read to your child. It's a gift that Learn About Safety. There are lasts a lifetime. LI many helpful books written for parents to use with children to discuss fears, friendship, school, disabilities, family issues (such as adoption, siblings and aging), and problems of the world. When a child is not able to dis- cuss a specific painful issue, you 1. Take your children to the can approach it indirectly by library regularly, Get them reading books that are general, their own library cards. Enjoy advises Joan Kristall, director of story hours. Later, encourage Programs for Families of Sepa- them to participate in summer ration, Divorce, and Remarriage reading programs. in Baltimore. 2. Hang out in bookstores For example, she finds that with children's areas. Let chil- The Wizard of Oz reflects many dren browse. of the issues and feelings children 3. Give children books as have when their parents sepa- gifts and help them start their rate: a sudden change to a own libraries. strange land, feelings of loss, the 4. Other great gifts to en- concept of "home," and the need courage reading are magazine for emotional support (heart), un- subscriptions, book clubs, and derstanding (brain) and courage. audiotaped books, which often You may not even read the come with printed versions. whole book; one page can prompt 5. If you can't find a book discussion and then you can fol- you like on a certain subject, low the child's lead, putting the make your own with your book aside. child's participation — for ex- For a child dealing with diffi- ample, Benjy's First Day at culties, say Mr. Sawyer and Ms. School, Our Family Shabbat Corner in Growing Up with. Lit- Book, My Baby Sister, Grand- erature, a book can help by pro- ma and Grandpa Are Coming viding accurate information and to Visit. language for understanding the problems, relieving the child's Sharing The Joy Of Reading With Children Artists Market Holiday Exhibit he Detroit Artists Market's 1995 Holiday Exhibition, "Holiday Visions," is now open through Dec. 23. This exhibit features unique art- work created by Michigan artists and craftspersons. A wide vari- ety of functional and nonfunc- tional work in all media is exhibited throughout the gallery. Art aficionados can purchase one- T of-a-kind gifts ranging from $10- $1000. Some of the artists include: Candy Everett, Charla Khanna, Catherine Peterson, Mary Arto and Susan Beiner. The exhibit features tiles, silks, dolls, ceramic teapots, jewelry and paintings. For more information, call (313) 393-1770. Cl