her Han PHOTO BY GLENN TRIEST RUTH LITTMANN STAFF WRITER Mr. Goldsmith reports that right-handed children are taught to tilt their paper to the left in order to create the standard "right-hand slant" of the letters. "Having left- handers tilt their paper toward the left makes things more difficult and uncomfortable for them," he says. 14 by sugarcoat the bitter re- _ ality? Jeff Goldsmith, a Farm- ington Hills resident and author ofLeft-Handed In A Right-Handed World, knows life as a southpaw hasn't been easy. On Little League baseball teams, coaches rarely gave him a chance to play shortstop, sec- ond or third base. Young Mr. Goldsmith cov- ered first base or took to the outfield, positions better-suit- ed for lefties. In school, everything from drinking fountains to pencil sharpen- ers caused him grief. Violins, typical- ly strung for righties, disheartened him all the more. To whine isn't his intention. Mr. Goldsmith, 39, says he doesn't advo- Southpaw hopes to increase awareness. cate special privileges for lefties. What he wants is more awareness. "In virtually every civilization throughout history, there has been some discrimination against left-han- ders," Mr. Goldsmith writes in his book. "Some societies have tried to eliminate left-handers, but few soci- eties have ever really understood or embraced left-handed people." The English language reinforces his point. "Right" connotes truth, accu- racy, goodness, righteousness. The word "left," on the other hand, is associated with being left out, left over or left behind. A left-handed toast is insincere. Left- handed flattery isn't worth much. And a left-handed oath is meant to be bro- ken. Mr. Goldsmith gets beyond seman- tics to explain some age-old customs• and stigmas. "The only accepted use of the left hand in some cultures is to wipe and clean one's own private parts," he says. `Throughout much of Asia and Africa, even today, being left-handed is simply not tolerated. In cases where verbal warnings have failed, left hands have been burned over fires or in scalding water, or have been beaten or broken to cure someone of his vulgar, danger- ous and socially unacceptable habit." OTHER HAND page 16