_nap, sit ilor": elk 40, 11111 Atib. ,slp #15. 4110.4. -- VC, Home, Sweet Jewish Home On kiddush cups and Seder plates: Rabbis share their thoughts on what helps make a house a Jewish home. BY SHELLEY KAPNEK ROSENBERG efore setting foot inside, you know; this house is different The symbolic declaration of belong- ing is proudly displayed, a re- minder for all within and without to see. There is a mezuzah on the doorpost; this is a Jewish home. The mezuzah is the first seen, and one of the most important, objects to grace and identify a Jewish home, but it is by no means the only one. If people are committed to living a Jewish life, they will find themselves living a life full of rituals, says Rabbi Daniel Polish of Temple Beth 13 El in Bloomfield Hills. Objects used specifi- cally to enhance those rituals "enrich the ex- perience and evoke feelings in our souls that aren't expressed by something pragmatic," he says. Ritual objects are a concrete way of showing one's Jewish identity, explains Rabbi Chaim Landau of NerTamid in Baltimore. "They bind you in Jewish practice; actions speak louder than words." "Creating a Jewish life takes place in one's actions," echoes Rabbi Daniel Weiner of the Baltimore Hebrew Congregation. "Surround- ing oneself with Jewish ritual objects sets the context for a Jewish home." But merely owning the objects without liv- ing Jewishly is an empty expression, he says. 'What's in the heart of the individual and what is expressed through actions is what makes a Jewish home." "Establishing a home in which Judaism is practiced connects a husband and wife to Jew- ish people everywhere in the present and to the Jewish past," explains Rabbi Irwin Groner of Shaarey Zedek in Southfield. Since life" in Hebrew is "chai," which also LE • URI )ES 19115 • 45